Can any networking pro help me?

I set up Xlink Kai Version 7.4.18 beta, everything is working fine, network is reachable, console detected, arena joined, but no game on console(TV)

im using levelone wireless router WBR 3408, i connect xbox 360 to router thru ethernet, but my laptop (the software) is connected wirelessly to the router.

I've tried almost every possible solution, including, turning off firewalls, PAT, direct connection, deleting updates, switch versions, EXCEPT,

flashing dd-wrt with KAID into my router, but I scared it will brick (my only router).....

but if any pros out there got it working, please share your knowledge TQ

btw my console is 360, not old, ugly XBOX 1...

This post has been edited by Ikruga: May 30 2009, 11:26 PM

thanks for the depressing reply