I don't know, however did he boast something like his new GF is better (this and that) to you?

Coz nothing much to talk about, so find some good memory times to talk and only could think of when both of you are in relationship, I guess. At least it happened to me as well

He has his own BF, he should talk to her instead of you.

How often does he talk to you, er....daily?

My advice is to talk to him only when necessary.

I mean talk to him when it is something important or at least, make it less often, say every 2 days or so. I guess you are interested to know how is he doing at the moment.

You do have some feelings for him even now, but what about him?

Hah, doesn't sound like a good start for him.

If he one day, wants to return to you, you need to think.

Why so?

It would hurt even much if eventually u found out that he treats u nothing more than a spare tyre ..

A guy should know wat he really want in a relationship.  And if he seems like a 'pendulum' swing back n forth, then u might need to keep him as juz friends, not a potential life partner ..

Erm, care to tell the reason for the break up?

I see...

You do sound like you (and your ex) miss physical presence of partner

There must be a process, somewhere......cannot be just simply snap in just a moment.

Find something else to do (at the moment).

find another bf, forget about him xD

No problem 

I would go out just to see things in other perspective.
Haha, that is called rebound and frankly i won't suggest that.

Both u and him are not ready for a more committed relationship.. 
Well this is pretty normal for young ppl.  When u ppl grow up, in terms of mentality, along times, and coupled with life experience, usually u'll tend to be more stable about matters of heart.

u're still young.  Explore life n keep ur options open.

You cant keep loving him like how u did ,If you cant get rid of that feeling,i belive u will never move on.and by the time,u aldy waste alot of ur time where u can use them and spend it for better things instead of being sad and begging for sympathy.I used to be like you,even worse i guess.but its ok for now,time will heal.just hang out with friends.and make sure not to contact with him within these few months.once u can forget him,its better not to talk to him at all after that,otherwise the old fire will burning back.some people they have to learn something ,where it says
GREEN LIGHT : PEOPLE ALWAYS LEAVE ,SOMETIMES THEY COME BACK,SOMETIMES NEVER !

But I did stop contacting him because if I don't do so, it'll appear annoying someday. Just I can't stop thinking about him 

Oh yes, I thought of blogging it once but decided not to. I have a best friend and willing to hear me out, Not hear though, just MSN. But, it helps me a lot. At least I will not mind if he feels annoying. 
You stated cut off all contacts included delete his no. right?? I wanna do that as well because I did that with my previous few ex-es but they contacted me back after a few years. But, this current-just-over-ex, it's hard too because I scare I can'd him anymore 

Nope, I have difficulties remembering hp no. even MINE!! And once I confused my dad's and my bro's 

Nope, I don't remember my ex car plate, msn n hp no. because I'm not observant type and I don't find a need to remember it but I have this special senses, I know that car is mine(any of my family members) just by seeing side doors, roof, anywhere but not the driver or the car plate. 

After we broke up, I was the one who start the convo then I stopped coz it seems annoying. 4 times he started the convo with me.

1st: Calling me in the middle of the night(3am) saying he's bored and nothing to do so find me to kill his boredom
2nd: Msn before midnight inviting me for a movie
3rd: Calling me in the middle of the night again(1am-4am). That's when I know where he lives in much more details.
4th: The next day after we went for a movie asking me my UNI orientation day.
5th: MSN me Where am I staying in my UNI? coz his friends also interested to study there and also when will I get my driving license(he read my blog and knew I took driving test already)

That's all then I never contact him nor him contacting me till now.

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Added on May 28, 2010, 11:41 pm

I understand what you mean there because it didn't do me good too but at least I'm expressing it out rather than keeping it to myself and think stupid thing. At least there's a friend that willing to hear my story and didn't stop me from being a jerk and just encouraging me.

Yes with my just-broke-up ex. A few years ago ex-es, I deleted their contacts coz it's just a junk in my phone however we met again in tuition center and got contact back *sigh* But i was over them already so keeping contact as a friend.

Because you initiated the break up that's why he wanna be with you back. As for me, my ex wants it, so I want to be with him back. basically, I'm your Ex and you are me. Don't want to give anymore second chance and what's over is over, no turning back.

Sometimes I'm doubting, will I give my ex a chance if he really did ask me back?? and I doubt I'll reply "Yes" spontaneously. 

Did I say that? Maybe I sounded like that. I'm sure your ex will be happy if you give him a second chance, like if my ex give me a second chance too. Yea, I'm too much with the "IFs"

You're right, my ex gave up on me is his lost. I thought of calling him tonight, maybe it's not such a good idea. If he can find a new girl, so could I.

I never get back with my ex-es, so I dunno the feeling of being back with ex. But, I think it's hard to work out since the betrayal is already there.

I called him last night and chatted for hours  but he's really helping me to move on indirectly. Whatever we chat, he'll say something that make us both feel there's a gap between us and not really will work out together. Then, I start to think lesser on him anymore.

He's indeed a responsible man.