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 *:-☆-:* Confessions of A Broken Heart v20 *:-☆-:*, *~All you do is be strong & move along~*

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post May 26 2009, 10:22 PM

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What exactly would spam be defined as, by the way? If we reply to a thread with "lol", can we consider that spam?
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post May 26 2009, 10:23 PM

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QUOTE(Baronic @ May 26 2009, 10:22 PM)
you'll be okay. chillex dudes.i'm referring to one liners like, ahem, "first", "second"
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Oh okays. That's good to hear.
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post May 26 2009, 10:28 PM

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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ May 26 2009, 10:26 PM)
Why i still want to cling to her? doh.gif
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Could it be that you are afraid of change, that things could change to something that is worse off than your current situation, and so you cling on to her?
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post May 26 2009, 10:34 PM

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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ May 26 2009, 10:30 PM)
I dont know.It could be any reason,IMO,like,i find she's good for me,or just that i cant find anyone that is better and is around my standard.

Also,my friends just keep on reminding me about it and ask me to go after her. How would you go after someone who is so far away from you?
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I take it that you're referring to a metaphorical distance.

The thing is, you can't. You'll have to reduce the distance first. Easier said than done.

And I don't really know what's going on here, so I don't really think I'm in a position to give any advice here.
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post May 26 2009, 10:40 PM

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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ May 26 2009, 10:38 PM)
It's a real distance.Im physically separated from her.More than 1000km and nothing can be done rationally to reduce the distance.It's hopeless,but somehow,i dont want to give up completely.

Nah,as long as you want to help,it will do.Experience doesnt really matter,as everyone have different opinion on an issue.

What im gonna do is,avoid contact now and destroy everything that have anything related to her.
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I think you need to find another big distraction. I indulged myself with my friends after my breakup, and it did work to a certain extent I guess.
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post May 26 2009, 10:44 PM

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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ May 26 2009, 10:42 PM)
I actually have one now:

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So fun burning people.
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User posted images don't seem to be loading on my comp today...
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post May 26 2009, 10:46 PM

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QUOTE(KTCY @ May 26 2009, 10:44 PM)
To be frank, I never cling around a girl for more than 3 months after being reject.
I take time and avoid seeing her (ok, most of the time the girl will avoid me)
But this time, the girl rejected me once on Feb, get back to me on March. And till now. That's the reason I want to make a clear off between me and she. I'm tired of being a nice guy. I want to be a bad guy to her this time brows.gif  cool2.gif
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Haha. I chased a girl for around 1 and a half years and got rejected 3 times before I gave up.
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post May 26 2009, 10:49 PM

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QUOTE(KTCY @ May 26 2009, 10:48 PM)
I won't let myself suffer for that long tongue.gif
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I was young and naive? I don't know, I kept hoping and was quite delusional.
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post May 26 2009, 10:52 PM

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QUOTE(KTCY @ May 26 2009, 10:50 PM)
But I ain't gonna miss other opportunity just because of a lady tongue.gif
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That's why I'm keeping my options open at the moment.
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post May 26 2009, 10:54 PM

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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ May 26 2009, 10:53 PM)
Just like me now? unsure.gif
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Well, they say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger (or stranger, whichever you prefer). You live, you learn, you grow.
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post May 26 2009, 10:59 PM

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QUOTE(KTCY @ May 26 2009, 10:58 PM)
Am I the youngest here ? I guess not right. Exp should be the youngest right ?
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I was born in 91, am 17 going on 18 in Aug. You?
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post May 26 2009, 11:02 PM

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QUOTE(Baronic @ May 26 2009, 10:58 PM)
many emos emo without realising that despite saying otherwise, they actually like being emo. food for thought. biggrin.gif
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Agreed. I can personally testify to that. I used to like wallowing in my own self pity, and hence was always quite emo. The breakup I had brought me back down to earth and gave me a reality check, so in a way not all breakups are bad. You learn from them/

QUOTE(__mill @ May 26 2009, 10:59 PM)
for fun time, yes.

in the end we still go for the good guys tongue.gif
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That's a relief =)
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post May 26 2009, 11:08 PM

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QUOTE(KTCY @ May 26 2009, 11:07 PM)
Why girls / ladies like bad guy but in the end they will regret for not taking up a good guy as a bf ? sleep.gif
Really, women. Tarak boleh faham doh.gif
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Can ask yourself why guys want to have hot sexy girl as GF but want a good somewhat plain girl as wife.
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post May 26 2009, 11:11 PM

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QUOTE(KTCY @ May 26 2009, 11:08 PM)
And why ladies like to hope while the chances is merely even 1 % ?
My case, the girl's been thinking about her ex for nearly 1 yr and a half. Till she saw the guy with another girl, still waiting. wtf ? sweat.gif doh.gif
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I pity you then, because you were the rebound guy, the guy who picked her up when she fell. Sucks to be one I guess. No offence meant.
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post May 26 2009, 11:13 PM

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QUOTE(KTCY @ May 26 2009, 11:08 PM)
That's so not me. Most the girl I going for, ain't hot. But still they are lots of admirer around them.
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Differs between guys. But I was trying to paint a general picture. Not everyone fits into the general picture though, but most would.

Personally, my taste in girls would go more towards the middle height youngish looking girls, maybe slightly lanky and awkward but quite cute. But I still like looking at hot girls anyways.
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post May 26 2009, 11:15 PM

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QUOTE(KTCY @ May 26 2009, 11:13 PM)
Nah, at least I know I'm 1 of the guy she been relying on. Lot of things she will be asking my opinions and etc smile.gif
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Well, you alone know best, so as long as you're satisfied and she is, then it should be fine.
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post May 26 2009, 11:16 PM

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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ May 26 2009, 11:14 PM)
No,they put me off.

I just want someone decent.
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Don't we all.
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post May 26 2009, 11:18 PM

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QUOTE(KTCY @ May 26 2009, 11:15 PM)
I look at hot babes too but the fact is I know myself. I can't bang any of them so why bother getting myself in the trouble ? tongue.gif
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Haha. What is your taste in girls, I'm curious to know.
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post May 26 2009, 11:36 PM

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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ May 26 2009, 11:30 PM)
I think you would know that,being emo isnt a fun thing in the first place.

I know that you are implying me as Guy A.Fine,i dont mind.

I dont get emo,without any good reason and i want to get rid of it.For once and for all.Done it once,this is the second time.


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I use Starscream to bomb Bumblebee to bits. tongue.gif
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I think what you should do is have a change of mindset. Stop thinking about her in the first place. Don't remind yourself about her; keep stuff from her away. And keep yourself busy, it's when you're alone and have nothing to do that you'll probably end up thinking about her. Keep your other options open as well.
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post May 26 2009, 11:38 PM

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QUOTE(KTCY @ May 26 2009, 11:37 PM)
The most basic thing, GET HER OUT FROM YOUR LIFE !! Don't contact her, don't see her. DON'T EVEN IM her. Delete her from your facebook/friendster or what ever. tongue.gif
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I think deleting from fb or friendster a bit too much, I don't think Cheese wants to lose contact with her completely. Saying that, contact has to be kept to a minimum though. Find another girl, that might work.

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