Guys, I knew this girl then we got close to each other. She sorta gave me subtle hints that she likes me (or maybe I was just sensitive ), but she asked me three times if I liked anyone then would ask me sometimes if I'm jealous about something with her and many more 'hints'. I bought her one or two things, as well. She did say she kinda likes this guy she knows, but her hints all seem to make it invalid

Then a month ago our communication sorta dropped; she said she's very busy. I foolishly decide to tell her my feelings at this period, and of course it's a no.

Why would she give those 'hints' then ? She would find me to talk and all that...

I had a problem here and I will jz briefly discuss it. Here it goes:

Me and my gf have a cooling period off (or break up) because she was demanding so much from me and I couldn't handle the stress level. We didn't contact at all as she promised me not to pick her her call or return the sms.

Cause I just graduated from my uni, I need to prepare for work while she was bugging me about how insecure of her. Maybe it was my mistake as well for not concerning her much. That's because of our miscommunication. U know girls tend to hide their feelings and guys have to seek them out. So, I didn't know what she had sacrificed until her best friend told me about it.

So, I have been thinking alot after 4 months and I decided to get back with her again after we broke up twice and try to change myself to be a better guy but I found out that she's with another person now. Don't u think is fast for a person who get into relationship for 4 months? I was very depressed. What should I do to get her back? Or to move on? I am torn apart between this 2 decisions.