I had a problem here and I will jz briefly discuss it. Here it goes:

Me and my gf have a cooling period off (or break up) because she was demanding so much from me and I couldn't handle the stress level. We didn't contact at all as she promised me not to pick her her call or return the sms.

Cause I just graduated from my uni, I need to prepare for work while she was bugging me about how insecure of her. Maybe it was my mistake as well for not concerning her much. That's because of our miscommunication. U know girls tend to hide their feelings and guys have to seek them out. So, I didn't know what she had sacrificed until her best friend told me about it.

So, I have been thinking alot after 4 months and I decided to get back with her again after we broke up twice and try to change myself to be a better guy but I found out that she's with another person now. Don't u think is fast for a person who get into relationship for 4 months? I was very depressed. What should I do to get her back? Or to move on? I am torn apart between this 2 decisions.

maybe u're right. Probably jz feel betrayed alittle though

I got my job after my graduation. Probably because all this while I am focusing too much on studies and once I got a job, I feel I am basically secure as I don have to worry about unemployement since I had a degree. But I am getting much better now and looking forward for a fresh relationship