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Maintaining A Healthy Relationship, Yes, the secret is here (UPDATED)
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Life_House
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May 26 2009, 10:55 AM
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QUOTE(mrmagic21 @ May 24 2009, 10:27 PM) » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « The knowledge-experience thing. What I first figured out is that the guy meant that when we have that certain experiences, the knowledge we get surpasses our mind for a better concept and thoughts to the future. Hence, making us forget our experience and mistakes and truths that would just take control of our life to the worst or to the greatest. That's why in his opinion, experience does not matter in a relationship because we tend to forget about it and when we re-experience such relationship, thus a mistake is born and the truth about love based on experience is actually nothing. Dude, you should write a book about this.
Was the guy trying to say that we have no control over the knowledge we gain, and let the knowledge to control back over ourselves ? Was he trying to advocate that we do not need to learn our mistakes and just let those mistakes re-occur in the relationship(s) ? Was he trying to suggest that we do not need to keep improving our capability in maintaining a relationship by remembering and learning from past mistakes? And thus, does that serve a meaning to have and maintain a relationship ?
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