yeah... if cant do, don force yourself...

no la.. i mean TS...

is force like that marry not happy, better not first loh..

sorry leh.. i not mean u cutie..

$$$ conquers all...even ur love ones!
Correction,it should be...."no money dun think of marriage"...or maybe dun ever think of having a GF at the 1st place!
I know ur fiancee is prepared everything for both of u 

I know la....like einstein famous formula

E = MC2

Effort = More (Cash *Cash)

I will add 5 cents here, first 12k for wedding is not expensive, I don't understand people here, why married when you cannot afford it, I am a guy and I actually support girls looking for husbands who can support them, sure wife must understanding and all sorts, but based on research, women likes security and the fact is that RM12k is not a lot for wedding so the wife/gf is not willing to chip in is understandable, do you ever think from women's point of view. Research or studies have shown that women actually have planned their wedding since they are 5 years old. They have been thinking and thinking and planning up to the time of adulthood. You said couple give and take?? This a a fair way, man pays all, children follows guy's family name, if wife pays some, would you also give and take and some children follow the wife name and also your name follow the wife name?? Everything has it's price, women follow husbands name, children follow husband name and wife has to give birth and look after the children, the least a man can do is pay for the wedding!! I always tell people this, if you cannot afford to marry then don't do it, wait till financial ok, it is downright selfish. I am not a hyprocrite, my financial is not at the right way yet so I don't get married and have gf.  Marriages do go down in unhappyness due to financial and that is a fact.

12k not alot? 12k go cheong in Thailand you can be a king! Hell, it's even enough to buy a Vietnamese bride!

Who doesn't want to be grand in everything? The question is at what cost.
Support Darwinist, marriage is unnatural. Guys should have the right to procreate with any women they want. 

NO MONEY....

NO MARRIAGE

NO LOVE

Only left is sadness,pity,sorrow!

From wat kind of view u say tat im loaded? u meet me b4...but u havent seen my car,my salary payslip,my savings acct yet!

there are too many materialistic gals out there....im not a "fool"...I'm always beware as I always tell myself tat

THERE IS NO GALS CAN LIE/CHEAT on me!

Unfortunatly most gals thinking of tat,...they want to sit a comfortable car in order to tell their frens tat "my bf is sumthing"....they will nvr sit on local cars or public transport.Trust me...I know wats in their mind!

Marry? I might start thinking of giving up for it...since there is no gals who can accept me & my "current status" as I know tat I can't compete with those who are much far better than me.Gals like to compare...I know!

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do I sound like....I can't afford tat car? Yes,maybe now I can't but next few years...I might be!

even tat,borrow 1 day is too short!