DISALLOWED

1. Threads that do not belong in CC, posts such as "Pics or GTFO", "go have s3x with her" and of that variants. Do it, and i'll be flagging u for warning and possibly suspension.

I'm hoping to make CC into something more serious, where we actually HELP one another. If you're too stupid to offer something constructive, then don't offer anything at all.

2. I request/appeal/urge the community to help and in rooting out such forummers from now on by reporting them. i assure u i WILL see the report, and i WILL act on it. (i may not be always online, but so other mods will act on it too)

3. I'll also be keeping an eye on poll threads that have nothing to do with CC

Also will be shutting down threads that has anything to do with one night stands. It has nothing to do with relationships, and are just trolling for stupid spam posts as mentioned above.

4. No blog posts or rant.

5. No "im lonely, be friends with me" threads. Use love classifieds.

6. Avoid hypothetical threads, or threads that are about "PERSON A" and "PERSON B", as there is no point/ a waste of time if person A and person B is not here to read our thoughts and advise. The allowance of such threads will be purely discretionary.

7. No generalisation threads. ie : "Why all (insert race here) are like so and so." "All girls only like guys with money?". "Girls only like bad boys?" etc.

Updated 23/08/20:-

8. NO thread or post with sexual innuendos or descriptive sexual-related postings.
- We are not interested in the details of your fantasy or affair. Failure to comply will result the thread/ posting being considered as trolling and you'll be given a SUSPENSION.

- Example: if you had an affair with someone, just mention that "...had an affair with a colleague at work... etc" and how this affects you. You DO NOT need to share graphic details of your affair or how it started (in the context of sexual innuendo).

This post has been edited by sweet_pez: Aug 23 2020, 04:01 PM

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Added on August 31, 2009, 10:04 pmStereotype threads will be closed. General questions threads with no details will be closed, with a note for the threadstarter to feel free to reopen when more details are added. this is to keep the trolls out of cupid corner, both threadstarter trolls and useless post spam like trolls. We're trying to make CUpid Corner into something more serious ala Dear Thelma. So if u want us to bother to give u advice, then make sure u bother to give us the details. Rant threads / blog style threads will be closed. Threads that require a yes/no answer with no proper discussion will also be closed.

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Added on December 1, 2010, 3:41 pmUPDATE 1/DEC/2010



This post has been edited by Baronic: Dec 1 2010, 03:41 PM

I see many threads with the same title, "confused", "heartbroken" etc. While not a must, would appreciate it if you can include SOME detail at least in the thread title itself.

Thank you.

I thought it was pretty common sense When the rules say "there are minors on board no
Sexually explicit posts", it's understood no ONS / how to get in her pants thread. Since common sense seems pretty uncommon here I'm spelling it out for you. No ONS / bonking threads. Oh and such threads already break the rule on "Cupid corner is for RELATIONSHIP issues only". Matters of the heart. Not matters of your reproductive organs.

Also have you guys ever thought that treating women like sex objects is pretty demeaning to them? And you wonder why you're still single.

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Added on August 11, 2011, 10:31 pmAlso

Q: why you close my thread saying only relationship
Issues and you allow those two club threads to hang around. Why don't you close such threads also

A: As for those club threads I totally agree with you. As a matter of fact when I first got in CC as mod I actually closed them all (there were more last time). But the community, (and the community makes the forum) disagreed and say yes cc should be serious discussions for help but they would like a place to simply chat, and they can't do it in kopitiam cuz /k/ has a superiority complex and generally ostracize them. So we made a compromise, I let them keep 2 of the half dozen threads at the time. But only these two. No more.

This post has been edited by Baronic: Aug 11 2011, 10:31 PM