Easiest way is find someone who can support himself. If there's surplus, well, his money is my money and my money is my money. No problem wert?

^ good guy spotted

But too bad go sell telur itik masin jor

Bottom line, dun even chase a girl if you can't even feed yourself.

I saw my quote

Love doesn't bring food to the table. If your man can't even take care of his own expenses, what kinda man is that?

Given a scenario, you're a girl. You're poor. You can only afford 1 meal a day. You live thru your teeth every month. Then come this guy, you love each other. But he can't even take care of himself, worst than you. Even need you to share your 1 meal a day - means you have half a meal a day now. Worst of all, he never plan to improve himself.

How long will you last with this kinda person? You want love? This kinda love comes with burden. Even if he plan to improve himself, he should only come for you after he is able to take care of himself. Loving a person means you shouldn't see a person suffer because of you.

A second scenario, you're a girl. You live thru your teeth every month. Here comes a guy, you love each other. He is not rich but he can take care of himself. Both of you combine income, still can take care of each other and guarantee 3 meals a day. Maybe not to the extend of going shopping happily or go vacation that often, but hey, at least that man is not a burden. And with your support, he will improve himself to show that he is the man of the house.

And to the guys, which kinda man you wanna be? A burden to a woman, or a man of the house?