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TSthken
post Apr 18 2009, 12:14 AM, updated 17y ago

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ok, here goes the situation
one day, you meet A. she is very pretty, you try to approach her and chat with her because you attracted to her. after you chat with her, you found that she is very nice person too, and she is really meant for you!!! you want her to be your girl friend but too bad she is not available (or she is not ready, or you dont want LDR, or that time you really stupid, or whatever reason la). so you move on......

after 3 years you have a girl friend, B. she is just ok ok only, lets say a responsible and caring girl......but 1 day, you accidentally got to know A, or someone very similar to her and you become her normal friends la. that time, A or someone like A is available. what would you do?
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post Apr 18 2009, 12:22 AM

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Question 1: By meeting A in 3 years ago, how do you really know she was really meant for you? How much of A did you know?

Question 2: Fast forward 3 years now that you're in a relationship, are you serious about this relationship or are you playing her?

You answers would point you to do the right thing.
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post Apr 18 2009, 12:24 AM

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A here B there.

WTF la.
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post Apr 18 2009, 12:25 AM

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QUOTE(Tatsumaki @ Apr 18 2009, 12:22 AM)
Question 1: By meeting A in 3 years ago, how do you really know she was really meant for you? How much of A did you know?

Question 2: Fast forward 3 years now that you're in a relationship, are you serious about this relationship or are you playing her?

You answers would point you to do the right thing.
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errr. for question 1:
love at 1st sight, and A did show you a little interest on you

for question 2:
between serious and playing.......courting perhaps


Added on April 18, 2009, 12:27 am
QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Apr 18 2009, 12:24 AM)
A here B there.

WTF la.
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u expect me to put alpha and beta?

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post Apr 18 2009, 12:32 AM

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QUOTE(thken @ Apr 18 2009, 12:14 AM)
ok, here goes the situation
one day, you meet A. she is very pretty, you try to approach her and chat with her because you attracted to her. after you chat with her, you found that she is very nice person too, and she is really meant for you!!! you want her to be your girl friend but too bad she is not available (or she is not ready, or you dont want LDR, or that time you really stupid, or whatever reason la). so you move on......

after 3 years you have a girl friend, B. she is just ok ok only, lets say a responsible and caring girl......but 1 day, you accidentally got to know A, or someone very similar to her and you become her normal friends la.  that time, A or someone like A is available. what would you do?
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i am a loyal fcuker so once i am with B, i'm with B until she dumps me. rclxms.gif
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post Apr 18 2009, 12:35 AM

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I'll stay with B.

B and I understand each other more than A.

If B is a responsible,caring plus loyal girl,im rather be with her then.Also,i dont know A well enough.What happens if i found out A is not for me after i dump B?

That time,only GG.

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QUOTE(Deimos Tel`Arin @ Apr 18 2009, 12:32 AM)
i am a loyal fcuker so once i am with B, i'm with B until she dumps me. rclxms.gif
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+1 from me condom boy laugh.gif
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post Apr 18 2009, 12:49 AM

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but will your mind keep thinking A will be better than B, always? then you no mood no mood like that?
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post Apr 18 2009, 12:53 AM

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QUOTE(thken @ Apr 18 2009, 12:49 AM)
but will your mind keep thinking A will be better than B, always? then you no mood no mood like that?
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Dont tell me you are having this problem le.
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post Apr 18 2009, 12:56 AM

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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Apr 18 2009, 12:53 AM)
Dont tell me you are having this problem le.
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wad happen if i have?
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post Apr 18 2009, 12:57 AM

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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Apr 18 2009, 12:24 AM)
A here B there.

WTF la.
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Up Up Down Down Left Right Left Right B A Start

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post Apr 18 2009, 01:10 AM

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Choose loyalty la duh. is it that hard?


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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Apr 18 2009, 12:57 AM)
Up Up Down Down Left Right Left Right B A Start

The true secret to getting women!
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omg this is so freakishly familiar. where have i heard it?

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post Apr 18 2009, 01:12 AM

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QUOTE(Tatsumaki @ Apr 18 2009, 12:22 AM)
Question 1: By meeting A in 3 years ago, how do you really know she was really meant for you? How much of A did you know?

Question 2: Fast forward 3 years now that you're in a relationship, are you serious about this relationship or are you playing her?

You answers would point you to do the right thing.
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Tatsumaki! Haven't seen you around much for some time.

QUOTE(thken @ Apr 18 2009, 12:25 AM)
errr. for question 1:
love at 1st sight, and A did show you a little interest on you
for question 2:
between serious and playing.......courting perhaps
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Since you answered his question, I want you to look again. Can you see the flaws you're committing already?

I never believed in love at first sight. Unless love means she's pretty+polite+willing to talk to you then I can't help you. As time goes by, you'll know that love alone won't keep you alive. No dear, it's not nom-able. Wake up.

It takes two to tango and the patient to learn. You're crushing on her hard but she shows a little interest. Plus she was attached at the time. She was probably just being nice -as you described.

I'm so tempted to say you don't deserve B but I'll ask this first. Courting? Means you guys are not together?

Then choose one and go for it. Not both. Or you'll lose A and B.

QUOTE(Deimos Tel`Arin @ Apr 18 2009, 12:32 AM)
i am a loyal fcuker so once i am with B, i'm with B until she dumps me. rclxms.gif
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+1 laugh.gif

My rambling:

You know how B is and it seems like the both of you are going on well together. You did not described how your A -or a duplicate of her- react towards you. Three years is a wide gap, what happened during those periods may made her different than the first girl you've so called fallen in love with. She's prettier but how is she inside? People as not as simple as they deem to be.

So you call the shots. Whatever it is, no regrets after.
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post Apr 18 2009, 01:12 AM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Apr 18 2009, 12:57 AM)
Up Up Down Down Left Right Left Right B A Start

The true secret to getting women!
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Are you still playing SNES ah??!!! shocking.gif
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post Apr 18 2009, 01:15 AM

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QUOTE(Deadlocks @ Apr 18 2009, 01:12 AM)
Are you still playing SNES ah??!!! shocking.gif
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post Apr 18 2009, 01:17 AM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Apr 18 2009, 01:15 AM)
Its the foundation of all things bro!
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Nothing beats Sega 8-bit Mega Drive okay.

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post Apr 18 2009, 01:23 AM

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QUOTE(Deadlocks @ Apr 18 2009, 01:17 AM)
Nothing beats Sega 8-bit Mega Drive okay.
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Real life titties > sega 8-bit mega drive
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post Apr 18 2009, 01:26 AM

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post Apr 18 2009, 01:29 AM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Apr 18 2009, 12:57 AM)
Up Up Down Down Left Right Left Right B A Start

The true secret to getting women!
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Wow,im gonna try that. laugh.gif
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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Apr 18 2009, 01:29 AM)
Wow,im gonna try that. laugh.gif
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that code is very profound... think about it tongue.gif
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post Apr 18 2009, 01:38 AM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Apr 18 2009, 01:23 AM)
Real life titties > sega 8-bit mega drive
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[Maturity > (Real life titties > sega 8-bit mega drive)] = Sega 8-bit Mega Drive.
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QUOTE(Deadlocks @ Apr 18 2009, 01:38 AM)
[Maturity > (Real life titties > sega 8-bit mega drive)] = Sega 8-bit Mega Drive.
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post Apr 18 2009, 02:12 AM

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Stick with gf lo...

I think my situation dulan a bit. Old story though

Chase this girl A for 1 year plus already, constantly flirting but no real changes due to vast geographical differences. then slowly slowly giving up la. met another girl B who I clicked along very well with. After 1 month of flirting, decided to ask B lo. Right after couple 1 day, girl A say got "got surprise for you" when we're gonna meet up at a Christian function some time later. Slowly slowly dig info from her she finally tell me that she was gonna ask me to be her bf when we meet up. On the 1st day I coupled with B man... on the 1st day.

I opted to tell her the truth anyway. Gonna stick with B. Dun wanna betray her. Then A was like so distressed (she is high-demand-girl) because she has never been rejected before (she thinks I'm rejecting her, but no la right) then lost contact for quite some time. I no face find her already lol.

Sorry TS hijack your thread. Feels good man lololololol
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QUOTE(thken @ Apr 18 2009, 12:14 AM)
ok, here goes the situation
one day, you meet A. she is very pretty, you try to approach her and chat with her because you attracted to her. after you chat with her, you found that she is very nice person too, and she is really meant for you!!! you want her to be your girl friend but too bad she is not available (or she is not ready, or you dont want LDR, or that time you really stupid, or whatever reason la). so you move on......

after 3 years you have a girl friend, B. she is just ok ok only, lets say a responsible and caring girl......but 1 day, you accidentally got to know A, or someone very similar to her and you become her normal friends la.  that time, A or someone like A is available. what would you do?
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the *A* in ur second paragraph is the same A in first or different person ? .. if different then put *C* la ...aiyoo... so unclear ur post ...

anyways ... IMO ... stick with B .. but still be friends with A / C ... if ur not serious with B ... then u try ur luck la ... biggrin.gif ...
BUT !!... think carefully and see.... U already got a gf ... how sure are u that A/C will 100% be with u ? .... nothing in life is certain my friend ... and LIFE has a way of being a biatch and faking things up for u .... Dont be greedy ... and once u've been caught cheating ... ur reputation among girls will drop to the drain like the sharemarket ... biggrin.gif .... ha ... be careful .... dont pakai buang ....ur still young ... if ur labelled CHEATER / USER ... bungkus .... rclxms.gif rclxms.gif ...
the choice is urs my fren.... is A/C worth dumping B for ? ... girls talk ... and they can findout shit about guys like sharks smell blood in the ocean ... biggrin.gif
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post Apr 19 2009, 05:09 AM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Apr 18 2009, 01:40 AM)
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I have often heard that girls are like monkeys. They do not let go of one branch before grabbing a solid hold of another.

And now, men are like that too.


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QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Apr 19 2009, 07:45 AM)
I have often heard that girls are like monkeys. They do not let go of one branch before grabbing a solid hold of another.

And now, men are like that too.
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bad monkeys. doh.gif:
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A = You'll be labelled an *******
B = You'll missed the opportunity to determine whether will she be the girl meant for you

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