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post Apr 24 2009, 11:56 AM


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just 'kill' their egos and mess up with their life, ur in!
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post Apr 24 2009, 12:12 PM


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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 1 2009, 12:38 PM)
One of the telltale sign I've always observed are guys who are vain, they're particular about their hair, or dressin, they tend to wanna look good, always shop for cloths.
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This matches me very well does that means I'm a play boy ? -.-
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QUOTE(slsl @ Mar 28 2009, 06:51 PM)
i know for sure.. playboy=insincere guys
normally they approach girls for sex..
so normally they'll be saying things like u r hot.. sexy.. instead of sweet, beautiful
and always commit things but end up doing nth... empty promises..
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post Apr 24 2009, 04:46 PM


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all i can say the playboy really play one good acting role which is "THEY ARE TOTALLY FAKE IT "
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post Apr 26 2009, 07:29 AM


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I sincerely thinks playboy/playgirl are pathetic, maybe the broken heart/loneliness/low self esteem are the causes?
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post Jun 11 2009, 03:09 PM


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Defination of Playboy:
A man who is devoted to the pursuit of pleasurable activities

Playboy would not go a big round to get u on bed. Playboy just go straight to the point and after that, no string attach.

Playboy wont be as scary as CHEATER. Playboy just want to get in bed with you. But Cheater is the monster, they cheat your love, your body and soul and money...
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post Jun 11 2009, 03:48 PM


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U all so bad. Playboy got feelings too u know? sad.gif
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post Jun 11 2009, 08:40 PM


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QUOTE(Drian @ Apr 1 2009, 02:36 PM)
Actually real players DON'T fall for women very fast. They're more independant emotionally and contradicts with point b) and c). They don't seek for women's approval and they're more confident. If you're confident, you wouldn't be texting or calling her everyday.
Point c) and b) indicates a desparate guy or a player wannabe wanting a girls attention, they're called wuss.

Guys who attempts to play around but not successful are not called players.
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I don't agree on this.

My ex is a confident guy but he is not a player
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QUOTE(GameFr3ak @ Apr 24 2009, 12:12 PM)
This matches me very well does that means I'm a play boy ? -.-
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QUOTE(NikkiDaTeddy @ Jun 11 2009, 03:09 PM)
Defination of Playboy:
A man who is devoted to the pursuit of pleasurable activities

Playboy would not go a big round to get u on bed. Playboy just go straight to the point and after that, no string attach.

Playboy wont be as scary as CHEATER. Playboy just want to get in bed with you. But Cheater is the monster, they cheat your love, your body and soul and money...
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Right on. Why bother with all the emotional attachment and complications? Just enjoy the passion and intimacy and then go separate ways. Win-win situation.

People who cheat are the real criminals, they lead you into thinking they're something that they're not.
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post Jun 12 2009, 02:09 PM


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QUOTE(spanker @ Jun 12 2009, 02:06 PM)
Right on. Why bother with all the emotional attachment and complications? Just enjoy the passion and intimacy and then go separate ways. Win-win situation.

People who cheat are the real criminals, they lead you into thinking they're something that they're not.
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post Jun 12 2009, 07:11 PM


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QUOTE(Tatsumaki @ Mar 31 2009, 04:18 PM)
Perhaps the reason why they are labeled as players is the very fact they play people around. Lets not talk about amateurs. Women have their intuition to spot these a mile away. The over-exaggeration acts and overly sweet talks. These are amateurs.

The good ones is where the problem starts.

Off the top of my head (without experience) perhaps someways to check is to

a)Talk to his friends, not just one but a few. Ask them how they got to know him and in doing so you might find out more about him.

b)Make a note of how often he gives gifts? I don't know but IMHO affection shouldn't have a cumulative price attached to it. It's nice to get surprise gifts, everyone likes gifts but are they coming in waaay too often and really extravagant gifts?

c)He falls very fast and very hard for you. This at first is flattering. But think about it - is it normal? In a normal relationship, a man or woman moves at a gradual pace to "get to know" the other person. They will call up for a date, if the date goes well, they will ask for a
second date. They will probably call you prior to the second date (they should, anyway, to make arrangements). But if they start calling or text messaging you every day after that first date, it's not normal. Don't be flattered, be wary.

d) and lastly FYA: http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-spot-a-player-playa/
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Thanks! I find the web very useful. =)
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post Jun 12 2009, 07:52 PM


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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jun 11 2009, 08:40 PM)
I don't agree on this.

My ex is a confident guy but he is not a player
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You're very funny. A player has to be confident but not all confident people are players.
Geez do I have to make the statement that obvious.
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Hi as you know lots of time guy will easily go to " LIKE TO LIE" especially to gal..
this is bcos they want and they need the gal to be his gf or other stiry behind his soul!

Guy will do 101 things to make the gal happy and get the gal heart, even lie to the gal just to make the gal happy.

here i Give you all a example on

HOW TO KNOW EITHER THE GUY/GAL SAYING LIE TO YOU.

1. Our human brain is seperate to TWO part left and right part.

IF the left part is use to THINK/REMEMBER/FLASH BACK OLD MEMORY than the right part must be used to CREATE/DESIGN


base on the analisis above you can different either the guy/gal is saying lie to u or not.

EXP:

You ask your boyfriend, where you both been to dinner last weekend.
Than look at his eyes. IF he eyes turn to LEFT, than he telling you the true, Because as i said, LEFT brian is use to think/remember/flash back memory...

THAN AGAIN, you continue ask him again, Where you been just now and why back home so late?
IF NOW, his eyes suddenly turn to RIGHT than i 100% can gurantty you he try to lie you and finding a topic or reason to lie to you. DONT listen to his expelaination now! He is LIE to you now!!


BUT BUT BUT>... everyone brain also will work in their own way, some people LEFT BRAIN is use to CREATE/DESIGN and RIGHT BRAIN is use to STORE MEMORY/FLASH BACK OLD STORY.

So, everytime before you ask him/her. You should ask him to flash back the moment you both together as example above and look in to his/her eyes... after comfirm which direction his/her eyes go than just continue with your actual question to him/her...


Thanks and have a nice day..


Love Doctor... (sunway)
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post Jun 14 2009, 12:50 AM


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it's hard to identify bcoz they have put their gentle men's masks on
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QUOTE(yichinOOPS @ Jun 14 2009, 01:50 AM)
it's hard to identify bcoz they have put their gentle men's masks on
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How to show and warning to "Gentle Man" mask guys?
ANSWER: you can try to come out with question like this:
Haiz... i donno why..... sometime i feel be human is difficult... AND STOP WHILE LET THE GENTLE MAN ASK YOU "WHY"
After he asked WHY, than answer him with litter sweet face and said... why lots ppl like to live with a mask, especially GENTLE MAN MASK.. and watch his respone and answer..

Dont care what is his answer or explanation...
IF nexttime he still ask you out and show u with his Gentle Man Mask... he maybe is the Gentle Man as his MASK.. BUT you should repeat this same question and say like u already know he is not the gentle man..

IF he still invite u out and again show his gentle man.. keep more time.. to several different places... from lowkey to highkey place.. than u can see his real face without mask..

from: Love Doctor..
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well, just don't give your body away to any guy before marriage and there you go~ Playboy problem solved.

If he is a playboy or cheater or whatever, he will realise that the only way he can get what he wants is to marry you, then that would be enough to scare the person away.

Also, then you will only attract genuine suitors. It is because probably the way girls act and dress and places they frequent (clubs, etc), they open themselves up to these kind of approaches.

Also, advice to all girls is please start playing hard to get more often!! I find it really annoying when I can hold a girl's hand without her resisting me after 1 or 2 dates (its not I hold their hands but I already know in my heart of hearts I have successfully won her over)...darn its just so freaking easy! I am a man who enjoys the courtin (hunting) process. The harder she is to get the more I will cherish and respect her. But girls that are so damn easy, I just lose my interest altogether...I want a girl who keeps me guessing...keeps my mind filled with thoughts of her, and how to charm her...Basically make me crazy...

I think too, its because girls are too easy now, they many fall prey to playboys and cheaters...So in summary, play hard to get, if you're gonna get cheated, at least make them work and get cheated by the best. If all else fails, just hold out until marriage, and all these fakers will be scared away...

Cheers,
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QUOTE(WeiChen @ Jun 14 2009, 01:16 AM)
How to show and warning to "Gentle Man" mask guys?
ANSWER: you can try to come out with question like this: 
Haiz... i donno why..... sometime i feel be human is difficult...  AND STOP WHILE LET THE GENTLE MAN ASK YOU "WHY"
After he asked WHY, than answer him with litter sweet face and said... why lots ppl like to live with a mask, especially GENTLE MAN MASK.. and watch his respone and answer..

Dont care what is his answer or explanation...
IF nexttime he still ask you out and show u with his Gentle Man Mask... he maybe is the Gentle Man as his MASK.. BUT you should repeat this same question and say like u already know he is not the gentle man..

IF he still invite u out and again show his gentle man.. keep more time.. to several different places... from lowkey to highkey place.. than u can see his real face without mask..

from: Love Doctor..
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Aiyah your question are so easily answered...

If a girl ask me that I will just say:-

Everyone lives with a mask, even girls who pretend to be sweet and demure or girls who believe they know what's behind the mask when the fact is they do not know what's behind the cover of the book. Don't you think so girl?

You expect a confident guy to be intimidated by a question like that? Haha. You see you forgotten that the guy can take your question and redirect it back to the girl.

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QUOTE(WeiChen @ Jun 14 2009, 12:04 AM)
Hi as you know lots of time guy will easily go to " LIKE TO LIE" especially to gal..
this is bcos they want and they need the gal to be his gf or other stiry behind his soul!

Guy will do 101 things to make the gal happy and get the gal heart, even lie to the gal just to make the gal happy.

here i Give you all a example on

HOW TO KNOW EITHER THE GUY/GAL SAYING LIE TO YOU.

1. Our human brain is seperate to TWO part left and right part.

IF the left part is use to THINK/REMEMBER/FLASH BACK OLD MEMORY than the right part must be used to CREATE/DESIGN
base on the analisis above you can different either the guy/gal is saying lie to u or not.

EXP: 

You ask your boyfriend, where you both been to dinner last weekend.
Than look at his eyes. IF he eyes turn to LEFT, than he telling you the true, Because as i said, LEFT brian is use to think/remember/flash back memory...

THAN AGAIN, you continue ask him again, Where you been just now and why back home so late?
IF NOW, his eyes suddenly turn to RIGHT than i 100% can gurantty you he try to lie you and finding a topic or reason to lie to you.  DONT listen to his expelaination now! He is LIE to you now!!
BUT BUT BUT>...  everyone brain also will work in their own way, some people LEFT BRAIN is use to CREATE/DESIGN  and RIGHT BRAIN is use to STORE MEMORY/FLASH BACK OLD STORY. 

So, everytime before you ask him/her. You should ask him to flash back the moment you both together as example above and look in to his/her eyes...  after comfirm which direction his/her eyes go than just continue with your actual question to him/her...
Thanks and have a nice day..
Love Doctor... (sunway)
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QUOTE(Drian @ Jun 15 2009, 01:38 PM)
Aiyah your question are so easily answered...

If a girl ask me that I will just say:-

  Everyone lives with a mask, even girls who pretend to be sweet and demure or girls who believe they know what's behind the mask when the fact is they do not know what's behind the cover of the book.  Don't you think so girl?

You expect a confident guy to be intimidated by a question like that? Haha. You see you forgotten that the guy can take your question and redirect it back to the girl.

Added on June 15, 2009, 1:42 pm

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LOL...you're good...haha...diverting the question back to her...

but i personally think the test would not succeed in testing a true faker, cos they know when you're testing.
i personally think answering a question with lies does not hurt, as long as you're not doing something wrong to a relationship. some people tend to be a headache when you tells them the truth
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You love movie? i would like to introduce one movie show to you...... " [SIZE=7]He is just not that into you[/SIZE] " just release.... one of the actress was Jennifer Aniston there are also Jennifer Connelly, Ben Affleck etc.... very good show em....i think you'll learn more about a playboy,what they will say to make you feel important..... watch it very good show smile.gif
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