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Serpentarius
post Mar 31 2009, 02:23 PM


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there's a lot types of playboy

some are amateurs, some are pros


it's hard to generalise them into a certain category ... but through experince you notice a particular distinction ..... but it takes months and years ... and need to be sibuk a lot ....


but keep in mind: sometimes guys might give soft words, he might be talented to entertain women, but still he might not be a playboy

smart talking to girls is a talent ... but that doesnt reflect their motive. some learn it when mixing with a lot of girls (or sisters)
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post Mar 31 2009, 02:42 PM


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QUOTE(bee_wn @ Mar 28 2009, 11:31 PM)
I think besides than sweet talking, they are good in making you feel your special =)
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post Mar 31 2009, 04:18 PM


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Perhaps the reason why they are labeled as players is the very fact they play people around. Lets not talk about amateurs. Women have their intuition to spot these a mile away. The over-exaggeration acts and overly sweet talks. These are amateurs.

The good ones is where the problem starts.

Off the top of my head (without experience) perhaps someways to check is to

a)Talk to his friends, not just one but a few. Ask them how they got to know him and in doing so you might find out more about him.

b)Make a note of how often he gives gifts? I don't know but IMHO affection shouldn't have a cumulative price attached to it. It's nice to get surprise gifts, everyone likes gifts but are they coming in waaay too often and really extravagant gifts?

c)He falls very fast and very hard for you. This at first is flattering. But think about it - is it normal? In a normal relationship, a man or woman moves at a gradual pace to "get to know" the other person. They will call up for a date, if the date goes well, they will ask for a
second date. They will probably call you prior to the second date (they should, anyway, to make arrangements). But if they start calling or text messaging you every day after that first date, it's not normal. Don't be flattered, be wary.

d) and lastly FYA: http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-spot-a-player-playa/
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One of the telltale sign I've always observed are guys who are vain, they're particular about their hair, or dressin, they tend to wanna look good, always shop for cloths.
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post Apr 1 2009, 02:36 PM


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QUOTE(Tatsumaki @ Mar 31 2009, 04:18 PM)
Perhaps the reason why they are labeled as players is the very fact they play people around. Lets not talk about amateurs. Women have their intuition to spot these a mile away. The over-exaggeration acts and overly sweet talks. These are amateurs.

The good ones is where the problem starts.

Off the top of my head (without experience) perhaps someways to check is to

a)Talk to his friends, not just one but a few. Ask them how they got to know him and in doing so you might find out more about him.

b)Make a note of how often he gives gifts? I don't know but IMHO affection shouldn't have a cumulative price attached to it. It's nice to get surprise gifts, everyone likes gifts but are they coming in waaay too often and really extravagant gifts?

c)He falls very fast and very hard for you. This at first is flattering. But think about it - is it normal? In a normal relationship, a man or woman moves at a gradual pace to "get to know" the other person. They will call up for a date, if the date goes well, they will ask for a
second date. They will probably call you prior to the second date (they should, anyway, to make arrangements). But if they start calling or text messaging you every day after that first date, it's not normal. Don't be flattered, be wary.

d) and lastly FYA: http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-spot-a-player-playa/
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Actually real players DON'T fall for women very fast. They're more independant emotionally and contradicts with point b) and c). They don't seek for women's approval and they're more confident. If you're confident, you wouldn't be texting or calling her everyday.
Point c) and b) indicates a desparate guy or a player wannabe wanting a girls attention, they're called wuss.

Guys who attempts to play around but not successful are not called players.

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sweet talker not necessary is a playboy leh~
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check his msn, phonebook, facebook, friendster.. if 80% of his friends are girls.. then you know the drill
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look at the forehead , look 4 the word playboy
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post Apr 1 2009, 11:45 PM


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Use time to judge it.

But from time to time, a good guy can change to playboy or vice versa.
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interesting, if all the methods above works, then its easier to spot a playboy.

ive encounter many, and yes, including ugly ones and they are good..
it takes a playboy to recognize one at fist sight. other than that, you have to look into their history, habits, etc. and no, not cz they smell nice or look nice.

moreover, a playboy usually have a very distinct characteristic where they are
1.talkative- they can smooth talk even your parents.
2.self confidence- they belif in their self. if u want to kill one playboy, just break their ego
3.always surrounded by girls or constantly changing girlfriend
4.multiple girlfriends which never stop coming in


anyway.those are my opinions.
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post Apr 17 2009, 07:51 PM


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Interesting thread with many interesting replies. smile.gif I don't have words to add. I tend to avoid those guys who like to flirt around. Sweet talk and flirt are kinda different, somehow.
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post Apr 23 2009, 08:47 AM


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interesting topic,
haha... basically there really no guide line to differentiate if the guy is a playboy anot...
every1 is different...

but then again... checking his fs,fb,myspace etc... if majority is gals and also he very active (leaving comments) with the gals then he could be one...
then, the number of ex... and duration of each relationship i guess....
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post Apr 23 2009, 09:39 AM


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playboy reporting in
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QUOTE(Drian @ Mar 28 2009, 02:06 PM)
Actually nowadays there are quite a number of playgirls as well.

Have you guys heard about the ling zhi ling lookalike in penang whereby she conned 10 guys at once.

Even playboys can't handle 10 girls at once but she can.
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hey never heard before? any photo of her?
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Ling Zhi Ling look alike in Penang? I want to see!
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QUOTE(MaltaBrain @ Mar 28 2009, 03:16 AM)
another definition for playboys are those who are goood with girls. We get along with the opposite gender without showing a femine side. And we dnt use romantic quotes with everyone. Only those we are interested with. pls lah. DNt compare playboys with those corrupted dudes who only wants to score. Sum girls might complain playboys loves touching girls or women wen they interact. All we are trying to do is interact and there is ntg dirty up our head..... true?
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agree with u
there is differences between playa n despo laugh.gif laugh.gif
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QUOTE(waternymph @ Mar 28 2009, 11:18 PM)
I want to go out with you!!  wub.gif
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hah...just like dat u wanna go out with me? i busy wor...sori a...
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QUOTE(BuyItTown @ Apr 23 2009, 09:14 PM)
Ling Zhi Ling look alike in Penang? I want to see!
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http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne%2BNew...211-106930.html
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post Apr 24 2009, 09:21 AM


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QUOTE(angelicscars @ Mar 27 2009, 10:54 PM)
Hmm, I was just wondering. How do you know if the guy is just playing with you or he really is into you? The way he talks, the things/words he says, the way he acts, etc.
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theyr'e flirtatious
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successful playboy will not choose what type of girls to eat..so be careful if u r not so pretty
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