Hmm, I was just wondering. How do you know if the guy is just playing with you or he really is into you? The way he talks, the things/words he says, the way he acts, etc.

everyone behave differently

Well... i have playboy friends and the things they talk and the way their body language "speaks" can even swoon me over...but it really take massive rationale to break the eye contact and sweet lips "spell"...

Here are the playboys in the making :

1. They love to use metaphors in conversations...for example "why u drive so carefully?...bcoz ur life is in my hands so i have to be extra careful"...shit like dat. "hello? do u hear what i say? why r u replying so slow?...becoz i wanna feel ur conversation bfore i talk to u"....geli.

2. in a noisy environment... when a girl ask something, a playboy will pretend not to hear her talk...but will take out his iphone or jphone or kphone then type shit like "it's too noisy here...i cant hear u" and pass his phone to the girl...and the girl will type her reply back...it's a fresh idea...and most girls will comply...moreover using this method u can convey sweeter shit to each other...me feel like vomiting now.

3. playboy look at girls with head slightly tilt forward...to reveal his freaking puppy eyes...and of course they use some fragrant bath shower cream...they freaking spray body spray around the chest and shoulder area to preserve the smell or shit like dat...and hopping the shoulder can be a freaking pillow...

let me think of other things then me add...cheers!

This post has been edited by slcroy: Mar 27 2009, 11:29 PM

hoho~
u have to admit tho, its fun to lead this guys on and then say "i just wanna be friends"
or just let them be. its flattering coz they keep complimenting you
sure, it may not be entire sincere.. but hey.. its still nice to hear, lol.

nice to have playboy as a FREN
nothing more, lol.

This post has been edited by Khriss: Mar 27 2009, 11:38 PM

the problem is...i am a guy. he's my friend...i rolled my eyes and it fell of my socket so many times till the optician dread seeing me walking in to his clinic already...

ya one more thing : when playboy talks...he seems to know lots of things girls tend to say...be it from blogging, to the latest fashion, to the celeb gossip, to arts and design, to the social events and happenings...sure at some points where they're bound to hit blanks...but dam it...they always so lucky kena the topic all can talk wan...

me? duh... like a bloody pearl open mouth like the pearl can fall off...i have no pearls!! he took it all!! skunk.

haha. yeah that's true.

btw, guys like these say the words; baby, babe, sayang, and stuff like that so easily to just any girl they met, aint that right?

flattered to be complimented? yeah...u say it's nice? hah! u got hooked...and if this happens to u...even the mighty ladies will fall. u will definitely being led on. coz...these complements r contagious...they hit the right buttons and off u go...he'll drown u with more till u cant breathe...and their sweet talk determine ur life and death...so how can u be rationale?...

bottomline...playboys...most can succeed is due to the simplest and most vulnerable things girl wants...sweet talk...romantic...bedroom eyes...sensitivity...and u cant differentiate if he's genuinely doing that with no ulterior motives or they r just another wolf in rabbit's clothing...not sheep...coz sheep r not "in" these days. u cant tell.

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Added on March 28, 2009, 12:07 am

yes...but why i say this i cannot succeed? hahhhhhh....got different wan u know...

u see...when they say "sayang"...they dont just say sayang... got slang wan...the say....suhyarnngg~

bhabbe (emphasize on the low "e"...buhbie~....or babe they say...bhaeeb....also emphasize the dam "e".

This post has been edited by slcroy: Mar 28 2009, 12:07 AM

another definition for playboys are those who are goood with girls. We get along with the opposite gender without showing a femine side. And we dnt use romantic quotes with everyone. Only those we are interested with. pls lah. DNt compare playboys with those corrupted dudes who only wants to score. Sum girls might complain playboys loves touching girls or women wen they interact. All we are trying to do is interact and there is ntg dirty up our head..... true?

Act. all is both party la. If a gal no "kihiao" how a boy can score?
1 hand can clap right? must both party. If as people say, use tactic n nice wording and gal like "seduce" by them d, this can b prevent 1 what. Just depend how u react and how strong is ur will. not only playboy lor...playgal also a lots.

Actually nowadays there are quite a number of playgirls as well.

Have you guys heard about the ling zhi ling lookalike in penang whereby she conned 10 guys at once.

Even playboys can't handle 10 girls at once but she can.

no clear guideline to identify playboy or playgirl, if that person want to play he/she will play anyway

See whether he plays with his phone often.

i know for sure.. playboy=insincere guys
normally they approach girls for sex..
so normally they'll be saying things like u r hot.. sexy.. instead of sweet, beautiful
and always commit things but end up doing nth... empty promises..

@ em-o-los-er

haha...i guess so. nah...it's all in the mind.

I want to go out with you!!

I think besides than sweet talking, they are good in making you feel your special =)

You know what ... Even those who are not playboy will do sweet talking ... because they are always rejected that they think they have to learn from the playboy so that they can succeed ... but usually those very skilled sweet talkers then most probably will be a playboy ..



I like to call the girl I am courting in those words too ... Nothing actually just give me a feel that I succeeded in courting her lol ... So fill the empty side of me

Lots of sweetness, very confident, very quick and direct, not shy at all. I think these combined is an obvious trait.

well, not only playboys use those words.. my friends who are attach also calls me babe or sweetie or hun.. they're not trying to 'get' me as i'm married but it's just them.. to them, it's a norm.. maybe to some girls they might get perasan and get mislead.. that's a bad thing coz the girls might think they are playboys who likes to break girls heart when actually they are not even one..