Virginity, Important to you?
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 Jun 13 2009, 04:17 PM
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QUOTE(fujkenasai @ Jun 12 2009, 11:33 AM) LoL no one wants 2nd hand products or opened stuff. Ahh so you are from curtin Perth...? I was from UWA once.... I miss that uni.   Hahaha...i'm not from Curtin Perth, i'm from Curtin Miri...LOL... i miss my uni too... |
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Jun 13 2009, 10:56 PM
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As long as it's someone I love.
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Jun 15 2009, 02:08 PM
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Guys who demands to have sex with their virgin gfs should be dumped. People give excuses like if I do not give he will dump me. What if one day when you grow old he does not want you anymore? What if you met in an accident and require someone the most he leaves you? Have you all thought of questions like these?
Please do not submit to your bfs that are selfish to their sexual needs. |
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Jun 15 2009, 04:57 PM
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QUOTE(fujkenasai @ Jun 15 2009, 02:08 PM) Guys who demands to have sex with their virgin gfs should be dumped. People give excuses like if I do not give he will dump me. What if one day when you grow old he does not want you anymore? What if you met in an accident and require someone the most he leaves you? Have you all thought of questions like these? Please do not submit to your bfs that are selfish to their sexual needs. LOL submit...you made it sounds like a form. its true not to give to someone that only wants to fulfill their desire, or you're stupid enough to give in cos you think he'll love you more. but its also important to give it to someone you love the most isn't it? i do not believe that the one that you're getting married with will be the man/women you love the most in your life, not certainly every marriage is like that. so yea, i do not believe virgin is to be after marriage. |
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Jun 16 2009, 04:35 PM
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QUOTE(wai_w3ng @ Jun 15 2009, 04:57 PM) LOL submit...you made it sounds like a form. its true not to give to someone that only wants to fulfill their desire, or you're stupid enough to give in cos you think he'll love you more. but its also important to give it to someone you love the most isn't it? i do not believe that the one that you're getting married with will be the man/women you love the most in your life, not certainly every marriage is like that. so yea, i do not believe virgin is to be after marriage. If you tell them that you want it after marriage and if they love you enough they will wait unless you yourself want to give it then its a different story. All Im saying is that do not give into your partner's pressure. If they love and respect you they will respect your decision. |
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Jun 16 2009, 04:44 PM
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it maybe important to ur partner..
precisely a man that will be ur husband.. Maybe..its depend.. |
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Jun 30 2009, 04:15 PM
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to me, very,very,very important.
keep it for my husband.  |
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Jun 30 2009, 05:47 PM
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QUOTE(sweetlolipop @ Jun 30 2009, 04:15 PM) to me, very,very,very important. keep it for my husband. will your husband keep it for you ? |
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Jun 30 2009, 07:18 PM
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QUOTE(yeezai @ Jun 30 2009, 05:47 PM) will your husband keep it for you ? Go find a virgin one too.  |
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Jul 1 2009, 02:32 AM
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QUOTE(fujkenasai @ Jun 16 2009, 04:35 PM) If you tell them that you want it after marriage and if they love you enough they will wait unless you yourself want to give it then its a different story. All Im saying is that do not give into your partner's pressure. If they love and respect you they will respect your decision. i do not believe in marriage cos it's afterall a 2 person's thing...not something...no one would hold on forever after marriage anymore..thats why you see so many divorces so keeping for husband or not does not matter anymore to me..cos the partner that you got married into cannot give you a 100% guaranteed life partner unless until the day you die i would not mind my gf or wife in the future not a virgin or had a hundred bfs or sex before, as long as we're in love and i'm the no.101 and there no no.102 QUOTE(sweetlolipop @ Jun 30 2009, 04:15 PM) to me, very,very,very important. keep it for my husband. lets say...just saying....you have a partner that is going on for like 10 years..you're keeping until marriage...what if he does not want to wait? or...what if accident happens and you're not a virgin anymore...what then? QUOTE(yeezai @ Jun 30 2009, 05:47 PM) will your husband keep it for you ? agree with this one...will your husband keep it for you or how would you know your husband is a virgin too |
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Jul 1 2009, 10:26 AM
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I think most Asian guys would want to have virgins as wives. It just means something to them I guess. I'd like to keep my virginity until marriage cos' you won't know whether your bf would end up to be your husband. No security at all. So keep it.
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Jul 1 2009, 03:47 PM
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QUOTE(eyhc89 @ Jul 1 2009, 10:26 AM) I think most Asian guys would want to have virgins as wives. It just means something to them I guess. I'd like to keep my virginity until marriage cos' you won't know whether your bf would end up to be your husband. No security at all. So keep it. that is orang kampung thinking la...you mean your future husband can keep on f*$&ing other till he marrys you ?? |
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Jul 1 2009, 04:11 PM
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if u have been f***ed several times or many many times... u would see black vagina a sign of usage...]
if reddish or pink it show u are still virgin....  This post has been edited by killingspree: Jul 1 2009, 04:12 PM |
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Jul 1 2009, 11:36 PM
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QUOTE(killingspree @ Jul 1 2009, 04:11 PM) if u have been f***ed several times or many many times... u would see black vagina a sign of usage...] if reddish or pink it show u are still virgin.... this i do not agree...not proven at all i think it's the matter of hygiene or aging..not usage |
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Jul 2 2009, 12:53 AM
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QUOTE(yeezai @ Jul 1 2009, 03:47 AM) that is orang kampung thinking la...you mean your future husband can keep on f*$&ing other till he marrys you ?? lol you'll be surprised. all my boyfriends have been virgins, and a lot of guys around me are virgins. not everybody's doing it, as everybody seems to think. |
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Jul 2 2009, 01:23 AM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 2 2009, 12:53 AM) lol you'll be surprised. all my boyfriends have been virgins, and a lot of guys around me are virgins. not everybody's doing it, as everybody seems to think.  how you managed to find so many virgin... |
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Jul 2 2009, 03:00 AM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 2 2009, 12:53 AM) lol you'll be surprised. all my boyfriends have been virgins, and a lot of guys around me are virgins. not everybody's doing it, as everybody seems to think. almost all the guys i know are virgins. im referring to guys in their 20s |
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Jul 2 2009, 04:55 AM
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depends on how u really think bout it
virgin or not virgin is just a word at last, more direct it's just u did it before or not. for some ppl, if u say u not virgin, ppl think u not clean. but still, its from which angle u look at it je. keep virginity for mr right is not a bad idea, but u needa think, doesn't mean ur future husband tak pernah cucuk perempuan lain dulu right? virgin or not virgin, most important, is his heart is with ur heart or ur hole. if with ur heart, then no worries. if other part, huhu... |
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Jul 2 2009, 11:28 AM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jul 2 2009, 12:53 AM) lol you'll be surprised. all my boyfriends have been virgins, and a lot of guys around me are virgins. not everybody's doing it, as everybody seems to think. Don't tell me you are the one that deflowered them?  poor flowers. QUOTE(FiF2 @ Jul 2 2009, 04:55 AM) depends on how u really think bout it virgin or not virgin is just a word at last, more direct it's just u did it before or not. for some ppl, if u say u not virgin, ppl think u not clean. but still, its from which angle u look at it je. keep virginity for mr right is not a bad idea, but u needa think, doesn't mean ur future husband tak pernah cucuk perempuan lain dulu right? virgin or not virgin, most important, is his heart is with ur heart or ur hole. if with ur heart, then no worries. if other part, huhu... Does it mean that people go and rob you should too?  |
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Jul 2 2009, 01:45 PM
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virgin means a person who never did intercourse.. if the person had an accident and the hymen tore, the person is still considered a virgin..
hmm.. i'v personally exprienced this, both me and my bf are virgins when we did it.. generally girls got blood everybody knew it.. bt then my bf also got blood jz a little which u could c the blood lah..got stuck in the condom.. the amount is nt as much as girls.. |
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