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post Dec 16 2008, 01:09 AM


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QUOTE(exploda @ Dec 16 2008, 12:55 AM)
WTF? I stay in Klang meh?? Last I noticed, my mailing address is peejay. R u a stalker?
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owh sorry, i tersalah nampak the one who replied.
i tot PhilHellmuth was replying to me.
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60% of the time either me or my cous or friend sleeps with a girl in the same room sure end up ....
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post Dec 16 2008, 01:19 AM


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QUOTE(leongss @ Dec 15 2008, 09:35 AM)
My cousin J loves her boyfriend alot and her boyfriend loves J alot as well. My cousin's boyfriend is still staying with the parents. Sometimes, her bf would ask my cousin J to overnight at his place. Firstly J feels 'bu hao yi si' spending a night at the bf's place. The mother might not like it...
But after a while it has become a normal thing.  blink.gif

Do you think the bf's family will think negative things about my cousin staying a night at his place??
His mother invited my cousin for a family holiday in Pangkor Island in March 2009.
I know some parents are open minded but how open minded can they be? I still think this is not nice leh... maybe i conversative  sweat.gif

Both of them are 25 liao... big boy anf girl but STILL. shakehead.gif
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definitely u r conservative. smile.gif they r 25, they can get married anytime soon. so just leave them alone, let them have their own life and wish them happiness.
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post Dec 16 2008, 01:19 AM


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QUOTE(-jEssica- @ Dec 16 2008, 01:09 AM)
owh sorry, i tersalah nampak the one who replied.
i tot PhilHellmuth was replying to me.
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It's alright. Since I'm staying in peejay must be nearer for you rite?
Muahohohohoho!!
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post Dec 16 2008, 02:17 AM


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haha XD looks like someone is fishing for some fun tonight.

Sleeping over is fun anyways. And saves on petrol so the boy don't have to drop you home after paktoh and then drive back to his place. Then in the morning drive back to pick you up for college/work/more-paktoh. It's like an extended date ^^
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post Dec 16 2008, 08:16 AM


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for me drive back gf to her house is a must lor. coz her parents oso worried her safety mah.
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post Dec 16 2008, 10:28 AM


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QUOTE(leongss @ Dec 15 2008, 01:35 PM)
My cousin J loves her boyfriend alot and her boyfriend loves J alot as well. My cousin's boyfriend is still staying with the parents. Sometimes, her bf would ask my cousin J to overnight at his place. Firstly J feels 'bu hao yi si' spending a night at the bf's place. The mother might not like it...
But after a while it has become a normal thing.  blink.gif

Do you think the bf's family will think negative things about my cousin staying a night at his place??
His mother invited my cousin for a family holiday in Pangkor Island in March 2009.
I know some parents are open minded but how open minded can they be? I still think this is not nice leh... maybe i conversative  sweat.gif

Both of them are 25 liao... big boy anf girl but STILL. shakehead.gif
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usually guy parents wouldnt mind at all.. as their son nothing to loose... thats 1 of the reason maybe..
another reason will be ur cousin is accepted by her bf parents..

didnt ur cousin's parents should worry on this? blink.gif
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post Dec 16 2008, 12:25 PM





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TS, let them la..they are ol d..u wan them to be virgin until 40 huh? brows.gif
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post Dec 16 2008, 02:05 PM


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QUOTE(leongss @ Dec 15 2008, 01:35 PM)
My cousin J loves her boyfriend alot and her boyfriend loves J alot as well. My cousin's boyfriend is still staying with the parents. Sometimes, her bf would ask my cousin J to overnight at his place. Firstly J feels 'bu hao yi si' spending a night at the bf's place. The mother might not like it...
But after a while it has become a normal thing.  blink.gif

Do you think the bf's family will think negative things about my cousin staying a night at his place??
His mother invited my cousin for a family holiday in Pangkor Island in March 2009.
I know some parents are open minded but how open minded can they be? I still think this is not nice leh... maybe i conversative  sweat.gif

Both of them are 25 liao... big boy anf girl but STILL. shakehead.gif
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i think it's okay. the boy's parents won't think much cause their son has nothing to lose icon_rolleyes.gif
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post Dec 16 2008, 02:18 PM


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QUOTE(lil`pumpkinz @ Dec 16 2008, 02:05 PM)
i think it's okay. the boy's parents won't think much cause their son has nothing to lose icon_rolleyes.gif
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but their parents will think the grl so "chincai" lo... rclxm9.gif
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post Dec 16 2008, 02:22 PM


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QUOTE(luvjim @ Dec 16 2008, 10:28 AM)
usually guy parents wouldnt mind at all.. as their son nothing to loose... thats 1 of the reason maybe..
another reason will be ur cousin is accepted by her bf parents..

didnt ur cousin's parents should worry on this?  blink.gif
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Some guys' parents mind.. nod.gif
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post Dec 16 2008, 02:24 PM


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if the guy's parents dont mind, then it's ok
if the parents are conservative then better not spend the night la
dont know what the future in laws will say better be pandai pandai a bit
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post Dec 16 2008, 03:08 PM





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QUOTE(luvjim @ Dec 16 2008, 10:28 AM)
usually guy parents wouldnt mind at all.. as their son nothing to loose... thats 1 of the reason maybe..
another reason will be ur cousin is accepted by her bf parents..

didnt ur cousin's parents should worry on this?  blink.gif
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we stay together. of course my uncle and aunt didnt know about her staying overnight thing.. i also dare not tell..
im just afriad that the boy's parents will think negative things about her only.

yea although 25... but we're asians. i'm asian, she's asian, he's asian, his parents asian. everybody is asian laa... ok? this is our mentality. i dun care whatever she lost... just that i dont want ppl to think bad things about my cousin..like cheapo girl etc...

ok la.. im conservative lo.

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QUOTE(sexymomma @ Dec 16 2008, 12:25 PM)
TS, let them la..they are ol d..u wan them to be virgin until 40 huh? brows.gif
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i'm not saying dont do also... just the reputation only... her image... blink.gif
i'm just concern... although its non of my business...

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post Dec 16 2008, 03:45 PM


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QUOTE(simchi @ Dec 16 2008, 02:22 PM)
Some guys' parents mind..  nod.gif
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yeah... i knew that too
but so far those frens parents or my parents arent conservative blush.gif

QUOTE(leongss @ Dec 16 2008, 03:08 PM)
we stay together. of course my uncle and aunt didnt know about her staying overnight thing.. i also dare not tell..
im just afriad that the boy's parents will think negative things about her only.

yea although 25... but we're asians. i'm asian, she's asian, he's asian, his parents asian. everybody is asian laa... ok? this is our mentality. i dun care whatever she lost... just that i dont want ppl to think bad things about my cousin..like cheapo girl etc...

ok la.. im conservative lo.

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i'm not saying dont do also... just the reputation only... her image... blink.gif
i'm just concern... although its non of my business...
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if the parents ok... i think they wont care what others(neighbours or what so ever) talk about... that's parents who open minded i suppose. problem settled.

on the other hand...to parents who conservative...would care neighbours view.. of coz not goodla... typically asian thinking...
after all is jz the family or both couple business... seriously i wont care of it wink.gif
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post Dec 16 2008, 03:51 PM


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25 yrs old normal lar haiyo. furthermore its up to them to make decision not us, if i said no would they stop the practicing?
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post Dec 16 2008, 03:56 PM


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Your cousin must have known the guy for quite some time already. The family house got place for her to sleep over. They also don't mind paying more by inviting her to join them for holiday. I say she is quite lucky.
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post Dec 16 2008, 04:11 PM





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they invited her only.. who knows she have to fork out money for her part later. hhahahahahahah... ok im so bad.
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post Dec 16 2008, 04:36 PM


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my gf stayed over at my house quite often...my parents dont mind at all...they nvr commented anything...my gf's parents also din commented anything and they know she staying over...both our parents are open minded and sporting...we even went to each other family's holiday together...i'm juz 19 n she is juz 20...and we are still virgin...lolz... laugh.gif

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post Dec 16 2008, 04:37 PM


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`His mother invited my cousin for a family holiday in Pangkor Island in March 2009`

that means his mom approved dy. beside they both are 25 dy, they are mature enough and know what they doing.

but girls parents usually offensive /dislike when bf stay gf house instead.
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post Dec 16 2008, 04:48 PM


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QUOTE(exploda @ Dec 16 2008, 01:19 AM)
It's alright. Since I'm staying in peejay must be nearer for you rite?
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still so far =x
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