mmmmm if gurl stay overnight at boy/men's house i can tell you that something will go wrong even
if you are gurlfriend and boyfriend and at aged 25

boy/mens have this crazy thinking about gurl is alone in a room (you know what i mean right)

This post has been edited by stealthgurl's: Aug 27 2009, 03:12 PM

i dont think that is any problem to overnight at boy's house.my parents very open minded and they know i can protect myself and they believe my boyfriend wont bully me because that is always me who always bully him.now.haha his family also not mind me to do that too

it remind the parent time muda-mudi dlu...

I'd love to but I know, something will go wrong someday. My parents wouldn't allow too.

its safer for something to happen at home rather than outside!

it is a normal thing now, it gives her sometimes to communicate with her future mother in law as well. well don't expect them not to do naughty things but as i had said it is normal but they might not do it as well who knows.

is not a problem too...
depends on the parent also. boy parent allowed doest mean girl parent allowed. in other word also da same.
just need to know izzit time to do so.


i quite often bring my gf back home for dinner. after dinner went in room,my room door is open and is connected to kitchen.
when room door is lock. my parent will say me..

for me, no matter i close it or open it doesn't matter because my mother is very "open" according to her, so sometimes in a month me and her will spend 2 day with my mother in her house. we enjoy it

so true...
i iz hate the double standards

i'm staying with my girlfriend. Duringthe weekends, she would come over at my house. I don't see anything wrong and I love her of course. But that's my case. If i have a daughter, no way i'll let her stay overnite at boy's house. Unless she's 23+

but still....... "VIRGIN" ??

So how old are u?

ur parent act like tat ka ?? too bad.

lets just say im still a student

oh well.. even if the couple is not staying together doesn't mean they wont DO that particular thing u're thinking of...

i think it's acceptable if both of their parents are ok abt it..

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This post has been edited by voodoocom44: Aug 30 2009, 12:29 AM

if the parents approved, then i don think there's a problem.. as u said, they already 25 yrs old..some ad married in this age

how about if 1st time date , then overnite at the guy huz tat nite oso?

I don't think anything going wrong with this issue. We are living in a cyber world now. This thing is too common nowadays and out of 10 couple, which couple never over night at the bf/gf place before ??? As long as both parents don't mind, then it's okay.

Let us see from a different perception, what if they hang out too late that day ?
They mother of the son also worried if on the way fetching the gf back home something happen ( eg. robbery/accident because way too sleepy to drive). So why not stay at bf house after hanging out until late night every weekend and the next day only back home. At least both are safe back to home and no one get harm or injured. We can't sense when danger come and only thing we can do is to PREVENT.
I use to do that last time when I hang around till late night with my bf but now no longer as I prefer back home early and sleep ( old already )

And about the age of 25 both staying together is much more common those days
I'm 18+ and my bf was 25+ that time when we use to hang around till late night.
I stay with him every weekend and the next day he fetch me college and some time when I back hometown, I will overnight at his place and the next day only he send me back home ( I usually reach my home town at night ) .

At age 25 some even married. nothing to worry at this age.

if you are telling me both at 15 then it is different case.