lao... TS, i think you're the best how a gf could be.

the guy treat them so bad, but they will stilll giving a chance to their bf, as they thought they willl change

....conclusion after reading your long story.....
。。。。爱情是盲目的。。。

well, i've seen a lot of such case happening around my friends, and yeah, most of them are girls
the guy treat them so bad, but they will stilll giving a chance to their bf, as they thought they willl change
they thought their bf will appreciate what they did...but heck....they end up will flooding with their tears again and again....

well to TS,in fact in your mind...you know what action to be taken...but just hard to make a tough decision
good luck to you

the root of all evil ... money....
a lot of ppl are alone, but you have your friends n family for christmas n new yr, goodluck then
some are more lonely, like me, 2nd christmas n new yr in a row away from my gf of 8 yrs...hope next yr can b together again...

anyway, its not the end of the world, merry christmas and a happy new yr

and where are gals like that when you need em? 

Dear forever21,

For my opinion,you should open up this issue to your bf and ask him to change.And be honest to each other,one simple lie might lead to disaster and misunderstanding.Guys gets so impulsive is because he can't effort to loose his gf,this prove he really love you.Beside this,he is under pressure for his position,he can't take it seeing you have so many good looking friends.Love is about trust, try to make him self confident,show how much you love him,tell him how much he mean to you and so on.If you still have no idea how to show loves,let me know,I got few  .

Ok, above is about love.Now let discuss about fact.Paying for your bf is not wise,guy has to be responsible of what he done.Guy feel damm embraced gal give him money.Guy look down on another guy who take money from gal.And now you are paying for him.Totally unwise.You are encourage him to ask money from you in future.The question is how long this love last as it keep on like this? Are you sure you want to face this issue for your entire life? Are you willing to pay for him everytime he is broke in future?Is this future you plan to be?Is he capable to raise a family?Are you gonna happy with him?What is love?How much he mean to you?what make you love him?can you live without him?Will your parents agreed?

Answer those question to yourself and make a wiser decision.One simple step change your entire life.Put your study on the front line,don't neglected or effected by just one guy.Now days guy are unreliable.Good luck for you forever 21.

LOL!
i wished i know too

they always said : good guy/girl is like parking lot. quite true

hi lucuias,
What is love?
It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind.No matter how you define it or feel it,love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.
We all have some positive aspect in us,no matter how bad our deeds maybe.And as God said 'Love All' .
Can live without him/her?
Yes,I can!!just will miss his/her companion.
(example:my beloved grandmother past away on last year.i love her alot!but after she has passed away,can i still live without her?Yes,I can.but i will really miss her.miss the way she used to smile,miss her stories,miss her nice cooking and alots more.)

Well,thanks alot for your thoughts.
oops,i meet a love expert here.questions & answers  =)
Good luck to u too.thanks!
  merry christmas & happy new year !

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Added on December 24, 2007, 3:34 am
'and where are gals like that when u need em?'..

Be together,share your joy and sorrow,understand each other,provide space for each other,but always be there for each others need.
We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.
Gals are good de.When u r able to win a girl's heart,she will love you sincerely.shower u with love & care.
=) sorry if i say too much..haha
i am a love failure also~ 
Good luck to all lovers !

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Added on December 24, 2007, 3:42 am

this video clip makes me feel so touching. *with tears*
it delivers my messages.
Watch it ya..its Great!

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Added on December 23, 2007, 1:50 am
alright,thanks alot jnikko!
=) u seems like a happy- go- lucky person . 
  merry christmas & happy new year !

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Added on December 24, 2007, 3:42 am

this video clip makes me feel so touching. *with tears*
it delivers my messages.
Watch it ya..its Great!

dear forever21,
thanks for sharing this!

you can have all other 9, but the remote is MINE!

'and where are gals like that when u need em?'..

Be together,share your joy and sorrow,understand each other,provide space for each other,but always be there for each others need.
We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.
Gals are good de.When u r able to win a girl's heart,she will love you sincerely.shower u with love & care.
=) sorry if i say too much..haha
i am a love failure also~  
Good luck to all lovers !

this video clip makes me feel so touching. *with tears*
it delivers my messages.
Watch it ya..its Great!

hi lucuias,
What is love?
It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind.No matter how you define it or feel it,love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.
We all have some positive aspect in us,no matter how bad our deeds maybe.And as God said 'Love All' .
Can live without him/her?
Yes,I can!!just will miss his/her companion.
(example:my beloved grandmother past away on last year.i love her alot!but after she has passed away,can i still live without her?Yes,I can.but i will really miss her.miss the way she used to smile,miss her stories,miss her nice cooking and alots more.)

Well,thanks alot for your thoughts.
oops,i meet a love expert here.questions & answers =)
Good luck to u too.thanks!
wink.gif merry christmas & happy new year !

forever21; you didnt fail anything yet; sometime it just doesnt work out; there is many people ard. be happy 
first love will always be remember; every heart is broken when it come to love; but to collect it piece by piece and join it together and move fwd..tats life..
merry christmas to you
i like the video...so touching ~

Lolz, forced to be happy - go - lucky person 
Forever in the darkness only will increase more sadness and sorrow
Life is like a rollercoaster so enjoy the moment of up and down

You are a loser today but you might be a winner tomorrow.
Break up is not end of the world. In fact is the new path for freedom

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to you and LYN supporters 

dear forever21,
thanks for sharing this!
feel so touch ooo   
wish u merry christmas ya
party like a rock star tonight..hehe

this is very very true

you're not a failure, it's his lost, not yours. shit happens sometimes, right? may be God wants you to meet a few bad choices before getting into an ideal one. be optimistic, IT's CHRISTMAS PEOPLE!!      
thanks, nice video. somehow i hope i've watch this video a few years ago...
anyway, it's never too late to know

the honeymoon stage is OVER. deal.

Dear forever21,

I am a person came up from love failure .The 1st time I face this situation,
I was like you.But since after that,I changed alot,I am better on choosing and
handle love relationship.

yeahs4.1 is right,ay be God wants you to meet a few bad choices before getting
into an ideal one. be optimistic

Let me give you a quote

"don't just love someone u can live with,but love someone you can't live without".

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Added on December 27, 2007, 4:03 am
yeap,single bell now.
eat alone,drink alone,walk alone,shopping alone,watch movie alone...everything also alone. shit ar! 
thanks spunkberry!u look sweet in your avatar pic.
=) have a nice day

alright,another quotes...

Never say 'I LOVE YOU' if you don't care.
Never talk about feeling if they aren't really there.
Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart.
Never say you will if u don't plan to start.
Never look in the eyes when all u do is LIE.

-cheers-

my life journey is juz colorful as i am always surrounded by beautiful friends.
i met my bf in the year of 2006,our relationship was going smoothly for a year
every moment that we spent together was a blessed and happy one,
but in the year of 2007 all starts to change..non-stop of arguements!
he becomes like a jealous monster,just like want me to stick to him 24/7,
he don't like me to hang out with my friends & call me to end all relationship with guys' friends.its impossible rite??!
he said its already more than enough to have him one and only in life...omg..
he deleted most of my friends contact number,especially when he see guys name..this is rude rite?!yet i be patient..
he even call me to change to a new number,so that my friends unable to contact me!
of course i won't change!!then he accused me for waiting some Mr.Right to call me. *faint*
-ok tell u all till here about the jealous part-

-come into another part-
he is working while i am studying,
in the year of 2007 he is always broke,sometimes i even give him pocket money (i work part time as tuition teacher)..
i don't count so much with him..as what is always in my mind is i love him.besides,his family treat me really nice & good.
ok,u may ask y he is so broke eventhough he is working?well,all starts when he was persuaded to be a guarantor by his friend for money lending,
his friend ran away..so he is the one to responsible! >.<
when his dad knew about this,his dad got really angry n scolded him horribly.he scare his dad the most.
his dad is rich,so his dad paid for the sum of money to the money lender first.but his dad wants him to pay back like montly installment,
uncle told me that he must ask his son to pay back for him to have a lesson in life for being a stupid guarantor for a betrayer.
every college semester break,i will work full of it..all the money will go for him..as to pay back his dad
-ok tell till here-

i have a few friends know about this and they ask y being so stupid!they call him 'jerk'
my friends said i am good looking,doing good in studies,nice to friends...but y become so stupid to love this 'jerk'
they said more better guys are waiting for me.wake up!wake up!wake up,my dear!!
*try to put urself into others shoes,if u feel it is pain,it probably hurts the person too*
yea,i know i am stupid!but my heart will become soft when i see him..thats y i will keep on forgiving him..
a word 'sorry' will be the end for an arguement...
-ok la,tell till here-
i am not complaning..but i feel very miserable..is this the life i want?is this kind of guy husband-to-be?
aaarrrrrrhhhhhhhhhh...drive me crazy!



thanks everyone for reading my story of 'a gal who is blind eventhough is blessed with beautiful eyes for loving this guy'
thanks for every thought and comment for whoever gonna post here
~You all are beautiful people~

Rat is the Romantic Star only for people born in year of Rabbit, Sheep or Pig. If Rabbit, Sheep and Pig people look for the love, they have more chance to meet the opposite sex. If they are already in love, they have chance to talk about the marriage in 2008.

If you shit also want to be together 
Glad to you able to start a new path of your life. 

It is hard, and will makes you think of your pass.

Tears doesn't mean for sadness. But is just represent an ending and reborn.

Set yourself free for a moment but not going wild 

Then come back to share with us with your new life.

Remember buried your past. If not you will not have a future. 

To TS,

single life maybe u still not use to it, but actually its full of excitement, most important thing is u are free to do anything, without being respons to some 1. Then I guess long time u didnt hang out with your frens why not give them a call and ask for a gathering. 

Dear TS,

After finish reading all the posts here, i feel like express something here.. my situation is almost same like u n ur bf.. can say abt 98% is similar minus the part he scold "go to die" n suspect me.. and me still cant make up my mind to make a decision.. kinda headache n going to crazy, everyday thinking of all of this sh*t.. 

wow u are such a wonderful gf, where to find? do u have a sister?    jkjk

TS since you go by year, perhaps 2008 will have wind of change, consult ur star sign / horoscope .
OYSTER-SAUCE

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Added on December 27, 2007, 10:58 pm

To yeng & kind 7chai,

yea,you are right.single is rocks.  *smile*
well,gathered with my friends on christmas eve..that night was a great one although single.
when the time reach 12am,everyone was extremely excited.couples hug n kiss each other.  - wooo,very envy- 
although i dont have partner..BUT i have my friends hug & kiss me ( kiss only from girls la) .. haahaa

Any LYN gathering then? lol
thanks..

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Added on December 27, 2007, 11:06 pm