To those fugly dumba$$ who currently drift away in his self-made delusional heaven, I know why you felt like that. You're naive, never had a girlfriend, never really see the ugliness of life yet, as I was before. I know, I've been there. You befriend a girl and as time goes by, you get along. Time progressed and you start falling for her after you "think" both of you have something special going on. The truth is, you're just degrading yourself and make a total fool out of yourself or worse, you have already became her doormat but you still didn't realize yet.
Here are some hints to make you realize you have totally nothing special going on. You might think you have something special because..
1. " We have so much fun!!!"» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «
The truth is: That's what NORMAL FRIENDS do...
2. " We go out from time to time. We watched movies etc etc.."» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «
The truth is: Ask yourself, when she goes out with you, she brings one or two of her friends is it? have you tried asking just the two of you? If not or if you have but she asks permissions to bring her friends along, tsk tsk.. you're in denial already.
3. "She always turn to me for her problems. I must be someone she could trust. I feel delighted to help her"» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «
The truth is : You just become her doormat. Wake up!!
4. "We laugh most of the time. She smiles and laugh a lot when she's with me"» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «
The truth is : Hahaha congratulations. You just became her personal clown. She lauging AT you not laughing with you la stupid!!
5. "We SMS a lot."» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «
The truth is : It's you who always start to sms her right? and she did replied because, she's being polite. She never was the one who initiate the first sms didn't she?
6. "We have been good friends for quite a while, I think its time to elevate our friendship"» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «
The truth is : Have you ever wonder she has lots of friends other than you? (especially the pretty ones). What makes you think you're THAT special friend to her huh?
7. "I can't stop thinking of her. She has been nice to me. I think she likes me"» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «
The truth is : You're f*cking delusional my sorry friend. She just being friendly or worst, noticed that you're her potential doormat and she hooked you up with her bait already.
So if you think you have something special going on, THINK AGAIN!!!