known this girl.

cut things short, she has signaling stuff so many times and finally, i've noticed her.
i've did every indirect confession steps.
except the try to make her laugh as im not really good at jokes. twisted sense of humor.
kinda weird but she did laugh at any remarks ive made like classes, some of her friends (if THEY started the flamefest), the lecturers.
and comes the part of asking her out. i don't know if asking her for lunch could be considered as asking her out but she accepted it and we did have lunch together.
she's the talkative, easy going kind of girl but that day, she was silent all the time like the cafe we were at was a library. i do have a hard time maintaining even a 3 minutes conversation that day.
she made excuses later so she could go home. i assume that was a bad sign as if she really need to get going, she could just say it without the excuses.
walked her back and during trip i noticed she tried to hold hands or something. as it would be kind of scandalous to do such thing there at that time, i somewhat declined. she blushed.
next 2 days, at class, she were all out in ignoring me. no hi-ing me back. none of the usual things we would do.
i feel so confused and all. tried to ask her what was wrong but she didn't gave me a chance.

question is, should i take that as a rejection and move on?
last thing i need for this term is a distraction like this. (a good relationship is a motivation but a things like this...)
i may sound cold but i am interested in her.
i am.
though the feeling is slowly diminishing as in now.

If interested, go after her la..
U no need ppl tell u if interested, go tangkap ma..
She ignored u coz u dat time ignored her attempt 2 hold ur hands..
She might get offended due to her female ego..
So, if u still like her, ask her out again and talk 2 her summore..
Sms her n etc..
do wad ppl do when they wanna chase sum1
^^

ok.
frankly, not really that interested in her.
what i meant was, i've taken interest in her because off all the things she has done for me. the signaling stuff. thought, maybe i should give her a chance.
though not EXACTLY like that. she is cute and pretty and all.
damn, if i could only put voice tone in text.

and i'm not really keen in wooing a girl right now but a study partner, as in *close* study partner would be a HUGE motivation for me. and hopefully for her too.

about the declining part, we met her friends on her way back home. so i thought it might be inappropriate at the time. plus it was just our first lunch together. just thought it was still to early for that.

and i'm still waiting for her to cooldown a lil bit more longer before i go to talk to her. maybe the day after tomorrow?

then what's the fuss? go backto ur studies la ...dun waste hers n ur time...

u ur self said it's the time for u & just cuz she's pretty n cute + all the things she done to attract you..means u're not that into her....

SO what's the problem here?



dont commit a relationship when u're not rdy..and not for the sake of pretty n cute lol...

Wow TS, you're playing hard to get?

Just give her the chance to go out with you unless you're already in a relationship with someone else. Since you're not into her, if you really want to turn her 'offer' down; do it straightforwardly,kindly and not in a roundabout way.

wow.
u've just made me look like a heartless nerd...
im into her but not really into her. something like she would be the one i would miss when i have nothing else to do.
i thought maybe i would go out with her as i'm not really preoccupied with important things.
a not so big crushy feeling.

yes i admit that i'm not really ready for serious relationship but who knows what this might lead us into?
i'm thinking something more casual but not too deep.

i've already considered whether this going-to-be relationship would go far or not and if it weren't, i'm okay with a break up.


that, is the bigger picture. and i rather wouldn't think of it right now.

the problem is, i'm confused on what was in her mind right now. as in her behavior i've mentioned.

btw, thanks Daddy for trying to knock some sense into me.

and i'm not playing hard to get. i'm just being a hypocrite trying to look decent in front of the public.

This post has been edited by xelrix: Nov 8 2009, 05:39 PM

true.


ts> some girls cant wait forever u know. u shud get what i mean.

Study partners with benefits?

Bolded part: She thought you're rejecting her.She thought you are not interested in her. Of course that will happen. You don't have to confess, but little things that shows you're interested in her, you gotta show to let her know.

to see her face during study would be nice.
but getting that kind of benefits would be awesome.




intriguing.
i'll get to her when the mood is right.

eh, got ajak her out for movies and shopping or not? dinner also...weekends etc.

don't la stick to college lunch only.

And even if you're really not that interested in her, doesn't mean you can't date her. Its through these dating time that you two get to know each other more. And also, go date other girls too la...lowyat got alot of ahmoi.

why act so sissy liao. dating only. its not like you're going to lose your virginity. manyak senang.

+1!

we should go dating sometime. u eated wif teongpeng, u oso no eated wif me wan?

I scared of you la

try to slip a note to her n apologize?

ends up she did misunderstood me as rejecting her.
ends up the feeling i had was just those passing feeling.
ends up we r just friends.
things r as normal as i concern.
sorry for bothering u guys.