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Kampung2005

Jul 4 2009, 03:06 PM

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jul 4 2009, 03:05 PM)

i see...

I hope can spend my first night at beach.

As in first night of the marriage?

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jul 4 2009, 03:06 PM)

As in first night of the marriage?

Oh yes.

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Jul 4 2009, 03:09 PM

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*Throws in the towel*

no need to compete la....you two go get a room la...

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jul 4 2009, 03:07 PM)

Oh yes.

I have a question, if a person opted for second night, is it appropriate?

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Jul 4 2009, 03:15 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jul 4 2009, 03:11 PM)

I have a question, if a person opted for second night, is it appropriate?

You mean he opted for having second night at beach?

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Jul 4 2009, 03:16 PM

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QUOTE(KirklandLee @ Jul 4 2009, 03:09 PM)

*Throws in the towel*

no need to compete la....you two go get a room la...

me and kampung?

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Jul 4 2009, 03:24 PM

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jul 4 2009, 03:15 PM)

You mean he opted for having second night at beach?

Normally, people always think to do "that" for 1st time on the first night....

What if one person, decided to do that on the second night?

In your opinion, does it sound disappointing?

Er, if possible, i prefer second

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Jul 4 2009, 03:28 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jul 4 2009, 03:24 PM)

Normally, people always think to do "that" for 1st time on the first night....

What if one person, decided to do that on the second night?

In your opinion, does it sound disappointing?

Er, if possible, i prefer second

haar...

if can, why still wait for second night?

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Jul 4 2009, 03:31 PM

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jul 4 2009, 03:28 PM)

haar...

if can, why still wait for second night?

This scenario, first night, assume that is marriage banquet

I like to see, second night, in overseas....

By this, the "first night" thing occurs in overseas instead of here, part of honeymoon

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Jul 4 2009, 03:34 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jul 4 2009, 03:31 PM)

This scenario, first night, assume that is marriage banquet

I like to see, second night, in overseas....

By this, the "first night" thing occurs in overseas instead of here, part of honeymoon

I think before you and you wife make out for the first night, she already in deep depression and confusion.

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Jul 4 2009, 03:36 PM

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jul 4 2009, 03:34 PM)

I think before you and you wife make out for the first night, she already in deep depression and confusion.

Ummmm......i see

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Jul 4 2009, 03:40 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jul 4 2009, 03:36 PM)

Ummmm......i see

think simple. Life is simple.

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jul 4 2009, 03:40 PM)

think simple. Life is simple.

Well, my nature is always analysis

But i don't think my girl will tahan my behaviour!

Haha, for example, if i want to choose what to eat, need to take few rounds inside the mall

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Jul 4 2009, 03:56 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jul 4 2009, 03:42 PM)

Well, my nature is always analysis

But i don't think my girl will tahan my behaviour!

Haha, for example, if i want to choose what to eat, need to take few rounds inside the mall

then you can always think and decide first before going in the mall

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jul 4 2009, 03:56 PM)

then you can always think and decide first before going in the mall

Gesh, you are correct

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QUOTE(KirklandLee @ Jul 4 2009, 03:09 PM)

*Throws in the towel*

no need to compete la....you two go get a room la...

ololololol, you're so made of funny! I laugh hard at your posts!

QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jul 4 2009, 03:24 PM)

Normally, people always think to do "that" for 1st time on the first night....

What if one person, decided to do that on the second night?

In your opinion, does it sound disappointing?

Er, if possible, i prefer second

Frankly speaking, if you're talking about first night of the wedding, I would say both couples would be dog tired to do anything after.
Usually there will be a wedding dinner. It would end around? 12? 1? By the time the newly weds reach home it would be 2 ish. It has been a long day with the groom going to pick the bride from her house, ceremonies, then dinner, going around each table and toasting.

Rare occasions the bride and groom will perform - so yeah. That first night, sleep will be the most precious commodity for both people.

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come on Cassandra, play something more real okay

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QUOTE(Tatsumaki @ Jul 4 2009, 06:48 PM)

ololololol, you're so made of funny! I laugh hard at your posts!
Frankly speaking, if you're talking about first night of the wedding, I would say both couples would be dog tired to do anything after.
Usually there will be a wedding dinner. It would end around? 12? 1? By the time the newly weds reach home it would be 2 ish. It has been a long day with the groom going to pick the bride from her house, ceremonies, then dinner, going around each table and toasting.

Rare occasions the bride and groom will perform - so yeah. That first night, sleep will be the most precious commodity for both people.

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I have to agree with this.

It is too tired. I helped in my sister wedding. She woke up at 4am to go to make up and few day before the wedding nite there is so much preparation.

By the time I reach home it is about 2am and we still clearing the thing at home. moping the floor. cleaning dishes and etc.
I sleep about 4am.

If they managed to reach home at 2am. I dont think he capable of doing anything anymore.

A bit no no to build a camp at the beach.

Well this is chinese wedding. different race have different arrangement.

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Jul 13 2009, 12:00 AM

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I've gotten over him.

Gosh.......How i hope i could do that.

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congratulations! you have taken your first step on the road to recovery.

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