Im tied down by my parents but lately i gained their trust more as i don't lie to them anymore.
They used to refrain me from going out at night but now isnt a problem for me as long as im back b4 12pm. AND i intro my friends to them.

Well, i used to be super sticky to him last time. Cook for him bring to his office n find him teman him eat lunch. However after one Holiday tragedy he broked up with me for he said he cant accept who m i n etc... It hurt me so badly and since that day i tried to make my everyday busy and Meaningful. I started to spend more time with my friends( realizing how fun it is !!) , doing house chores and attending more youth activities and photoshooting. However, those shooting are decent ones and I DONT "T CLUB at all~~ I find my life more cheerful and filled up.

He proposed me back, I still love him ! but i said give me time ... This time i said yes cuz he was so nice to me back ~~ N this time is his turn bring sticky... He's sticky is controlling...


Well, Now im tied down to my bf that dont allow me to photoshoot , and if go out with friends didnt tell him he'll get pissed off and crazy.
He thinks i behave like a kid and simply go out alone with another guy (which are practically my friends and closed ones not those i simply meet)
and he thinks i just dont have the awareness of danger and he has to keep my eyes on u everytime (Which he doesnt always cuz he's busy working for our future~)

SHOULD I USE THE SAME WAY of how i gain trust from my parents?
I wont give up in this relationship. Break up is the lamest excuse... but i can say..Im TIRED n SAD

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THERE IS ONE MOMENT WHERE IS WASNT POSSESIVE N CONTROLLING
I saw his thread and now i know... At that time he was in Love with another girl and had more interest in that stranger.
And Thus, I was neglected... now i understand~

This post has been edited by fire_angel: Jun 3 2009, 01:08 AM

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healthy relationship don make u tired and sad

either u give up on it , or accept his attidude , or u can talk to him about it .

seems like a very insecure guy , try to intro ur guy friends to him , show him tht he can trust them .

LOLZ~~ im not her... she's too old for my age

Lol. I knew it.

From your pictures in your blog, you look better than her too.

communication is the problem my friend..
did u tell him wat u feel? if he still dont listen n stuff.. i think this guy is too ego..
but on the other hand, u cant blame him on getting angry when u go out with guys..
that is wat guy is! just that u need to communicate with him n let him know

erm... he's just scold me back and think he's right~
When i explain further he'll just say.. yea u win u win...
ANd he always say~~ Ur always like my MOther~~ bla bla bla..
hmmm He love me too much i can understand...

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Added on June 3, 2009, 12:59 amThx~~ pictures can be a lie...LOL~~ anyway back to the point~~

This post has been edited by fire_angel: Jun 3 2009, 12:59 AM

no , he too childish not he love you too much -.-
if he love you , he will give u chance to explain and try to understand how you feel.
arguement in relationship is not about who win , its about understand each other .
ur bf how old d ? still living inside his comfort zone cube ?

Telling him or informing him is a kind of respect.
At the begining you will surely felt not use to it but later on, you will get use to it.
Breaking up for such a problem is not worth.
You should discuss with him and tell him about your interest. Photoshoot would not be a big problem.
Guys are always like that. You should be happy about this.
He Jelous about you with other guy is better then he just let you out with other guy just like that.
At least he care about you.

He's 20 turnin 21 soon ~ He started his working lilfe. More stressed i guess..mayb he just cant handle Love and Working life together

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Added on June 3, 2009, 1:06 amI informed and it makes him crazy and moody for the most one week .
I photoshoot many times told him its my interest already.
Its just lately dont know why suddenly he became so overpossesive and started to controll me again~

This post has been edited by fire_angel: Jun 3 2009, 01:06 AM

i disagree with you . not all guys are like that . if this problem drag on , i feel in future will be harder , start working d how? this world is full of male , don tell me you wan to find a company with NO MALE ? Guy jealous is normal but got a certain degree of jealously is acceptable . i think he went overboard . just my opinion though .

Love is love , work is work . 2 different thing .
you wont want a husband who bring work back home .
trust me .

There is one moment he wasnt POSSESIVE~~ i just modified the post on top~

what has him liking another girls has to do with him being possesive ?

Well, when a guy lost interest on his Gf.. he tend to less care n control her~ cuz his mind will be thinkin more on the another girl

Hey... I had an idea. Find 1 day when he's free, you go phootoshoot with him only.
You might able to build up his intrest with you then problem solve lo.

Do what u think is rite and is ur interested... coz as a BF,the duty of BF is giving suport,care and advice and not controlling GF........
He havent learn this yet and he still an noob in love.........

wow , sounds like an ******* .
btw , i think u got ur facts right , when a guy lost interest on his gf , his gf can go f*** a cow oso he wont care .

I told him this idea~ and HE SAID a BIG "NO!!" He hates Photographers.
Even there was this event where they give free studio shots in a Mall, he refused and walked away

TS seem to have some history of lack truthfulness which put a dented mark to your parents heart.
However that's another story

TS
If you really think your bf have transformed to be a control freak that chain your freedom, then he should be. If i'm in your bf shoes, no way I would allow my gf to do photoshoot aka modelling. You may furious to blame me being childish or immature but your bf & me know that modelling world is very dark. The glamour life, the attraction, the fame will make one life gone haywire eventhough you plea that ur willheart as strong as a nun. Don't insist telling everyone that the photoshot activities just for amateur purpose but once the photo land onto a modelling agency and at the same time it strike the jackpot, it would be nightmare for your bf.
Secondly....not every guy have a very strong and supporting will to see their love one hanging out alone with another guy. Even though going out with few frens also make them think twice.

The best point about your bf is he love and care for you more after a hiccup

Hope your tiredness will lead you the joy of happiness in future.

Well, im his 1st Gf and he thinks is he more matured than me while i'm a baby~ He told me i'll forever be a baby in his eyes.
I'd prove to him i was independant to work n study and live my life without him strongly. But now we're back he still treat me like a baby.