QUOTE(wodenus @ Jun 14 2009, 03:09 AM)
I wouldn't open either. Anyway, how would you stop people from labeling your email as "spam" ? then they'd never see another email you sent.
I see. But the point is, who would actually open and read a promotional email? are there people who do that? you can have a catchy header but with Gmail you can see part of the message. If the header doesn't match the message then it won't get opened.
Interesting opinion. For me, if a girl (or a customer) is not interested the first time, she's not interested, whether or not you look out for the best of her (or the best of them.) If you keep trying, you'll just end up being pushy and annoying and possibly be arrested or have a restraining order taken out on you. I'll have to ask the girls in Girl's Club whether this is true.
Anyway, why would you have to
make someone realize that you are providing value? wouldn't they see it the first time?
You mean you don't find it annoying and irritating that someone you consider a friend is always trying to sell you something? I removed someone from my Facebook list because he was always doing that -- he kept saying "I'm inviting you to dinner at my restaurant..." - to my mind, if you invite a friend for dinner, you don't make him pay for it. I'm sorry, but I don't see how someone would not be irritated and annoyed and eventually take you off his list.
People do that all the time. Well it is funny to try and describe something without speaking, that's the point of it. I used to play this game - you had two teams, each team would have a set of words, and then one person would have to try and describe the word without speaking. I've done it before and it
is fun and not boring at all. As for the marketing prospects of such a game, I'll leave it to you. I can see a few possibilities inherent in it that you might want to exploit.
Personally though, my private life is my private life. My professional life is my professional life. My friends are part of my private life. I don't sell stuff to them, and they don't sell stuff to me. If anything happens to them, they can stay at my place, and I'm sure I can say the same for them. Worse comes to worst, if I have to offer my life to save them, I will. Those are the people I call my friends. I don't have many friends because this place isn't big, and I have only one life
I find the idea of selling my friends (or family) something (or them selling something to me) as somewhat offensive.
So
that's where our tax money goes

Thanks. I find your ideas as strange and curious as I'm sure you find mine
Actually, I don't see why people need to sell a product at all. Suppose (just suppose) I had a good product at a good price, all I'd have to do is give out a few free samples. If they liked it, really liked it, wouldn't they be back for more? soon word would spread, and you'd have a steady customer base. As long as you give them what they want, you'll always have customers, right?
As for :
Why don't we do it here? that's what forums are for, we can have free giving and taking of ideas. I don't see a need to express an intent at all, if you want to do it just do it. I'm curious about a lot of things so I'm going to ask you here.
I guess at this point, it is no more about sharing, it is about conflicting opinions on whether to market or not, it is not the methods, but mindsets.
By the way, may I know your background in terms of marketing or business? Further to that, may I know why are you expressing your opinions without adding value to this thread? Please be reminded this thread is to share about Facebook marketing and not your personal opinion on topics not related to Facebook marketing which I believe in this case should be kept to yourself yeah.
From the way you are expressing your opinions, I would guess that you may not be a business owner of any kind (correct me if I am wrong or apologies if I appear offensive in any of my previous posts, apologies in advance yeah). As your perception of things MAY (and again, I am just guessing yeah) be coming from an employee mindset, that is where all these venting out of your own opinions is causing distress and misdirection among the forum members. I hope that you will understand the heart of business people and also try and relate to people within that domain yeah.
Either way, I would still be answering your questions, as the more the differences in opinion, the more conversations are generated, thus gathering more readers, and that in itself is the answer that may prove that Silent Party, may not bode well in Online Marketing (and here, we are not discussing about your experience in your offline, private parties which you attended yeah, I really hope you understand the context here, before expressing and leading the forum readers in a different direction, as I fully agree with your personal views as you are entitled to it, but about a volume of conversation posted online, such as this forum) I am sorry, if you feel strongly that people should not market their products, and I guess that's where the differences really lies. Marketing is a complete integrated process of modifying a user's behaviour from a prospect to become a buying customer. In fact, it is very true, what you said in terms of passing out samples, is in fact, a MARKETING tactic! Bravo to you, Wodenus! By sharing about marketing in forums like this, is also actually passing out samples like you said! I guess we have at least found a common ground of agreement! Cheers, dude!
By the way, when I was talking about the expression of intent, is that, we are already getting the right people to talk to the management, to do a course, face to face in a meeting room, not the online version kind, as we see the need to have a face to face meetup to assist the forumer's better unless you beg to differ from the founder of this forum, or are you the founder himself?
In fact, thanks for not remaining SILENT...

cause you are making this thread more colorful... All your questions are welcome and thanks for helping us keep this thread alive yeah.
Pleasure to meet you online with a VIBRANT PARTY!
Added on June 14, 2009, 10:51 amHi Wodenus,
Am really greatful to have your questions. Here are my humble opinions yeah.
QUOTE(wodenus @ Jun 14 2009, 03:09 AM)
I wouldn't open either. Anyway, how would you stop people from labeling your email as "spam" ?
You are entitled to your own fact, and the principle which was supposed to be conveyed is that a promotional email will not be as well done through a more social copywriting approach yeah. You may beg to differ and I respect your opinion, as all humans have different personality and tolerance in their communications. As to how to stop people from labelling your emails as spam, is to build trust over a period of time without sending commercial emails, but more on giving value and giving them the tips or education about a particular industry that you are in. If you are not a business owner, but from employee domain, you may want to send out tips on how to become a better employee to make more friends, rather than sell them anything, as you have expressed that selling or marketing may not be the domain you want to be in. I guess making friends would be something you want, so send them good stuff, like a viral funny video or something yeah.
QUOTE(wodenus @ Jun 14 2009, 03:09 AM)
Anyway, why would you have to make someone realize that you are providing value? wouldn't they see it the first time?
Sadly to say, people would not see it the first time, especially if you don't have a huge budget as a Small business. What i mean here is, big companies have lots of budget to advertise in Radio, TV and Newspaper, and gather masses from the crowds. Small businesses, like most who are from Malaysian Business Network, has limited budget to even have the "first time" engagement that you are discussing about, therefore, it is imminent for the small businesses to establish value in a community like this one, LowYat and Facebook, so that, they can use it as a platform to educate people, and give value before you even get to pitch the sales to get the "first time" yeah.
QUOTE(wodenus @ Jun 14 2009, 03:09 AM)
Personally though, my private life is my private life. My professional life is my professional life. My friends are part of my private life. I don't sell stuff to them, and they don't sell stuff to me. If anything happens to them, they can stay at my place, and I'm sure I can say the same for them. Worse comes to worst, if I have to offer my life to save them, I will. Those are the people I call my friends. I don't have many friends because this place isn't big, and I have only one life
Again, you are entitled to your opinion. According to a book called Grown Up Digital, many Net Geners now prefer to mix business with pleasure. Don't get me wrong here, what the book simply says is that, they want fun and interaction in social means within their jobs, and sometimes they overlap, so that work does not feel as a boring routine, but also inject some friends and relationship, making it seem like play more than work, but still with the same amount of performance and production. I cannot say it represents all job, like lawyers and doctors needs to be in constant seriousness and appear professional. If you are a web developer, or a marketer, it will involve social interaction, and sometimes you may MSN and log in to Facebook. This is how I find myself to be working in my tiptop condition, and may not be for you. I respect your opinion.
QUOTE(wodenus @ Jun 14 2009, 03:09 AM)
I find the idea of selling my friends (or family) something (or them selling something to me) as somewhat offensive.
Again, I respect your opinion on this, and may be you may have understood it from a wrong perspective. What Facebook provides is a platform for connecting millions of people, and in our case, Malaysians, which is at present 1.8 million of Malaysian citizens are the users of Facebook. Facebook itself was created to perform a professional task, which is to finish up the founder's (Mark Zuckerberg) assigment in Harvard, not created for socializing. And because of its' great numbers of members, corporate companies have begin to see that there should be a new way of marketing, which is not by pumping a lot of commercial message, but shift the methodology to what we call Engagement marketing or Interactive Marketing. Facebook Application, which contains games, but built with a marketing purpose is injected into Facebook to engage participation of the masses to subtly market to them. This is more of a psychological thing. As most of us are not the TV Generation, but the Internet Generation, using interactive platforms like Facebook Applications to market is better than putting an Advertisement on TV, Radio or Newspaper.
QUOTE(wodenus @ Jun 14 2009, 03:09 AM)
So
that's where our tax money goes
Careful with your words dude... cause you may be inviting trouble with the implying tone of this statement yeah. Just being a good friend to shield you from being viewed as defaming the Malaysian government. I am just a marketer doing my job to make living, not a politician myself. Cheers, dude.
QUOTE(wodenus @ Jun 14 2009, 03:09 AM)
Actually, I don't see why people need to sell a product at all. Suppose (just suppose) I had a good product at a good price, all I'd have to do is give out a few free samples. If they liked it, really liked it, wouldn't they be back for more? soon word would spread, and you'd have a steady customer base. As long as you give them what they want, you'll always have customers, right?
Correct, and I agree with you. Having a good product is also Marketing, giving out a few samples is also Marketing. Marketing is not limited to Advertising. To further understand the definition of marketing, let's take Wikipedia's definition,
"Marketing is an integrated communications-based process through which individuals and communities discover that existing and newly-identified needs and wants may be satisfied by the products and services of others.
Marketing is defined by the American Marketing Association as the activity, set of institutions, and processes for creating, communicating, delivering, and exchanging offerings that have value for customers, clients, partners, and society at large. [1] The term developed from the original meaning which referred literally to going to market, as in shopping, or going to a market to buy or sell goods or services.
The Chartered Institute of Marketing, which is the world's largest marketing body, defines marketing as "The management process responsible for identifying, anticipating and satisfying customer requirements profitably."[2]
Marketing practice tended to be seen as a creative industry in the past, which included advertising, distribution and selling. However, because marketing makes extensive use of social sciences, psychology, sociology, mathematics, economics, anthropology and neuroscience, the profession is now widely recognised a science, allowing numerous universities to offer Master-of-Science (MSc) programmes. The overall process starts with marketing research and goes through market segmentation, business planning and execution, ending with pre and post-sales promotional activities. It is also related to many of the creative arts. The marketing literature is also infamous for re-inventing itself and its vocabulary according to the times and the culture."
I totally agree with you, that some marketers have become more of an advertising people or sales people who send out promotional emails, and that they have forgotten their roles. As marketers, we are not supposed to SELL or ADVERTISE only. We need to identify the needs of the markets. Like when you said passing out a few samples, not matter how small, is an act of marketing, as you see the consumer's need to TRY OUt the product first before they would want to spread the word. Thus, you are already Marketing yeah.
QUOTE(wodenus @ Jun 14 2009, 03:09 AM)
Why don't we do it here? that's what forums are for, we can have free giving and taking of ideas. I don't see a need to express an intent at all, if you want to do it just do it. I'm curious about a lot of things so I'm going to ask you here.
Oh again, to reiterate, we are actually going to organize conference or seminar, and my apologies if you have gotten my explanation wrong. Through partnership with Shinjiru, we will be commencing talks with LowYat.net founders to create more value, extending the forum to an offline meeting to have like you said, a "PARTY" of tech enthusiasts who is not only active in Forums, but also in the real world yeah. Hope you can join us, dude!
Hope that my 2 cents have not offended anyone or conflicted your personal opinions. If you find the good stuff and in agreement, please receive in good spirit, if you found some of the statements above offensive to you, please discard it yeah.
Thanks again for not letting this be a SILENT PARTY thread, dude!
This post has been edited by vckloong: Jun 14 2009, 10:51 AM