PutPutLuv
Jul 21 2008, 07:58 PM
I always wonder why some of the people could just say I love you so easily while they never did it to their family.
My question is, How would you say I Love U? Is it a must for you to tell ur partner everyday? Or you only tell her/him in some occasions?
Let's share!
yeelin04
Jul 22 2008, 09:35 AM
QUOTE(PutPutLuv @ Jul 21 2008, 07:58 PM)
I always wonder why some of the people could just say I love you so easily while they never did it to their family.
My question is, How would you say I Love U? Is it a must for you to tell ur partner everyday? Or you only tell her/him in some occasions?
Let's share!
depends lor..some couples will tell everyday..
but for me..if everyday hear also will boring lor..mayb 1 week 2-3 times also cukup la..
jianjie
Jul 22 2008, 09:57 AM
QUOTE(PutPutLuv @ Jul 21 2008, 07:58 PM)
I always wonder why some of the people could just say I love you so easily while they never did it to their family.
My question is, How would you say I Love U? Is it a must for you to tell ur partner everyday? Or you only tell her/him in some occasions?
Let's share!
this thing do not have timetable...you don't have to care how many times you say it,just make sure when you say it,you mean it.
I don't count how many times I say that to my gf in a week..but erm,when the feeling comes,you will just say it
a little tip: make sure you look deeply into her eyes,and don't think of anything else but her when you say that 3 saint words
why some of the people could just say I love you so easily while they never did it to their family.it feels weird saying that to family..because dunno since when we take these 3 words to be only limited to love between male&female,not family love..
uk9089
Jul 22 2008, 09:57 AM
i never hug my parents or say i love you to them. weird weird. im too egoistic. haha
yongleefu
Jul 22 2008, 09:58 AM
I fppl say I love u to me.. my heart melts, my legs tremble.. I fell to the ground and kiss the the one who sat dat to me..
saintangelius
Jul 22 2008, 10:16 AM
I've always had issues expressing myself to my parents. Never said I love you, hardly hug them... it's one of those asian family things i guess...
With my BF it was different. When i look at him smiling at me and only me, suddenly my lips just part and words come out on their own. It goes with the feeling in my heart at that time. Even at times when we fight I can still look at him and say I love you with tears in my eyes. It's a very strong pull from somewhere behind your tummy and a strange squeezing of the heart. You have such overwhelming feelings that the only appropriate speech to express exactly how you feel for that person at that one moment in time is:
I Love You...
Gary1981
Jul 22 2008, 11:31 AM
Im in my 5th relationship till now, i remember i said it only once which is to my present gf. Each time my gf ask me to say, my mouthh still cannot open to say.Dont know why....
Cas
Jul 22 2008, 01:21 PM
It's not a must to tell your parnter everyday but it's a nice feeling to hear that or tell him. My husband and I always say i love you every night before we go to bed. and sometimes after he kisses me, he utters those 3 sweet words
Gary1981
Jul 22 2008, 01:30 PM
QUOTE(Cas @ Jul 22 2008, 01:21 PM)
It's not a must to tell your parnter everyday but it's a nice feeling to hear that or tell him. My husband and I always say i love you every night before we go to bed. and sometimes after he kisses me, he utters those 3 sweet words

how abt after make love?
wodenus
Jul 22 2008, 02:31 PM
QUOTE(PutPutLuv @ Jul 21 2008, 07:58 PM)
I always wonder why some of the people could just say I love you so easily while they never did it to their family.
My question is, How would you say I Love U? Is it a must for you to tell ur partner everyday? Or you only tell her/him in some occasions?
Let's share!
If I don't say the sky is blue, does that make it purple ?
PutPutLuv
Jul 22 2008, 10:26 PM
Not to raise of the races issues, but just Caucasians always do better in saying I love you to people they love. They tell their family, friends and lovers. I find it pretty good because... i always scared that one day i might regret for not telling my family and friends how much i love them when i could.
i understand the why people especially most of the Asians are not doing this, but I think it is very important to let them know right... Not only your partners but everyone that u love!
i wonder if i had become old or out-dated, i couldn't tolerate some of the youngsters speak up the 3 words so easily.
Did you guys really mean it when u were saying it?
seen
Jul 22 2008, 11:56 PM
I lost count of how many times I say "I love you" to my fiance in a day and vice versa. It's been 4 years now and I still love hearing it and I don't get tired of telling him how much he means to me. It's just natural....
yingjee
Jul 23 2008, 01:22 AM
lol.. just say it when u feel like saying it.. =/ dont have to count or pressure yourself to say it everyday.. saying it without the feeling.. is rather pointless. might as well dun say at all
kissydust
Jul 23 2008, 01:25 AM
i kiss my parents every morning, tell them i love them
i bid my bf gud9 n tell him i love him
i tell my galfrens i love them n i really do
never miss a chance to do so
yvonnedev
Jul 23 2008, 09:31 PM
tell when u really mean it
PerfectStop
Jul 23 2008, 09:44 PM
QUOTE(yvonnedev @ Jul 23 2008, 09:31 PM)
tell when u really mean it

100% agreed!!!
I have met some crazy ppl who went for a course called "Power Of Change"
after they attended this course, they started saying "I Love U" to EVERYONE!!!
This is really crazy i think, the meaning of I Love U is so deep n it shouldnt b say when u dont mean it...
I will said to my family or bf when i really feel like saying it...
PutPutLuv
Jul 24 2008, 10:10 AM
Ya... but it seems people just don't take these 3 words that important like we used to ...
don't laugh at me..but i think these three words are kinda Holy LOL!!! so... do be ashamed to tell your parents and family that you love them ... but think twice before telling your partner that you love him/her.
For me...i dunno you guys.. but i only start taking the relationship very seriously after he told me that he loves me... LOL
dopodplaya
Jul 24 2008, 10:30 AM
my phrase, "I love you, kimi, you love me, boku"
sissonne
Jul 24 2008, 12:12 PM
some ppl are just expressive. they're able to express out their feelings easily and some are not. but as long as the feelings are genuine, u should take it slowly to express it out.
hopefully it'll seems all normal saying it out every minute?
corallinkz
Jul 25 2008, 02:52 PM
i always hug my mum and my dads, but i just hardly cant tell them the 3 saint words "i love you" to them..mybe my expression of saying i love u by hugging them ;p
litaco
Jul 26 2008, 06:46 PM
Dunnid ask how,when,where,why we say "I Love U" , its juz unexplainable... when u feel dats, u'll say out.
it's dun nid a reason....juz sumthing come out from ur heart
But i prefer my partner to hug me from behind den saying "I love u" XD
its feel much great den saying "i love u"everyday ^^
zzngl
Jul 29 2008, 04:49 PM
i feel great saying I love you to the person i care,include my parents,boyfriend and best friends,it is because i always treat tomorrow is the last day of mylife,i dont wan to regret it by not telling them how great and beloved that i have being with them this every second.
I love you might hard to be said by someone else,or it should be say when there is special occasion,but take a step back,wat will it be,if you cant wait until that coming day.your silence might bring you regret forever that you never tell how you feel to them ( no one know wat you think and feel).
danny_ptlm
Jul 31 2008, 12:03 PM
QUOTE(zzngl @ Jul 29 2008, 04:49 PM)
i feel great saying I love you to the person i care,include my parents,boyfriend and best friends,it is because
i always treat tomorrow is the last day of mylife,i dont wan to regret it by not telling them how great and beloved that i have being with them this every second.
I love you might hard to be said by someone else,or it should be say when there is special occasion,but take a step back,wat will it be,if you cant wait until that coming day.your silence might bring you regret forever that you never tell how you feel to them ( no one know wat you think and feel).
if 2moro is your last day,den what would like to said to every1 in LYN??hehe...
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