hi gals, hv u experienced any guy which is younger than u is asking for a date or trying to chase u b4? i hv quite a no of experience. 2 out of 5 my ex is actually younger than me. i think mostly younger guys prefer to date/chase me is because i look younger than my actual age. so how do u think so?

Well I do have some experience dating younger guys but at most, they are 2 years younger and are quite mature for their age. My fiance is 1 year younger than me. I also an experience whereby a guy 6 years younger than me tried to ask me out but of course I did not agree because.... it just feels wrong when I'm working already and he's still in high school.

Personally I have no problems with couples who have significant age difference, but for myself, I don't think that I can date someone significantly younger than myself.

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i always wanna date older lady because their thinking more mature and they can be a good GF ....

not like young lady which they still cant think properly and they demand a lot

It's so weird that, girls prefer to look for guys who r older and more mature...
but opposite, guys also looks for older ladies and mature...
so what will happen to all the young guys n girls...

younger lady and guy.....study hard at school lor....what else they can do...

only for those old folks like us can enjoy pat toh hehee

Dating a guy younger than the gurl could feel very awkward

but the guys is think differently, they thinks the bigger the better.

My boyfriend is 3 years younger than me. We are doing very well together ^__^ Most times however alot of people think that he is actually 3 years older than me ^^;;

After 18(for both parties) age is not really an issue. It all boils down to whether or not both are on the same maturity level and are able to communicate with each other. Love knows no bounderies. So don't make age one ^__^

Plus, my mum is also older than my dad by 3 years ^^ He spent about 4-5 years to 'kao' her before she said yes to marriage XD

date younger ppl so that easy to customize later

my dad is 13 years older than my mom...i still not yet figure out how he manage to cheat my mom to marry him.....

i think its not about the age its about the level of maturity.
even a guy who is 3 years older can act like he's 3 years younger and vice versa.

haha i think diff cuz i used to think younger guys is not really mature enough to take k of me.

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Added on June 25, 2008, 9:35 pm

hv the same scenario like u r having. my mum is 2 yrs older than my dad. well i actually hope to hv a bf older than me even though i did actually accepted guys younger than me b4. mayb i'm just too worried guys younger than me doesnt think more mature than me.

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Added on June 25, 2008, 9:36 pm

bigger in terms of age o wat???

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Added on June 25, 2008, 9:38 pm

dunno whether izzit my fate o wat. i used to met guys which is younger than me but doesnt think more mature than me leh.

I dated a guy a year younger and although he's my best friend, I thought he was still a whole lot too immature.

It depends on what age you are at when he wanna date you lor... I went out with a guy who is 1 year younger than me when I was about 20... He was a bit immature than me... It was still fine... But if the girl is about 28 and the guy is like 20, maybe the problems occur due to different maturity level... If the woman is about 45 and the man is 40... I dont see any problem there... cuz most likely the man is matured enough for the woman... So... up to fate la...

dating a younger guy can feel myself young again (im getting old )

most of my dates were either my age or older hehe
some of them seem to mind really - and they call me "little brother", WTF?

Ur still old, that's the fact and accept it lah.

U wanna feel young again, lets date then

Been there, done that, never again!

I like gals who older than me, so far go out with them few times. Really enjoy the good time.

Well... age is not really a matter. To me is... how mature that fellow is. I date a women older than me 7 years for almost a year. To me ... we are so perfect in terms of knowing each other needs and what we want in life. Unfortunately we don't last till now due to some reason that usually most couples go thru. "Misunderstanding". But we are still fren till now. Most of my fren saying I am dating my sister or aunty but to me.. she is as sweet as pure honey.

Age is not a matter.. to me dating an older person is much better cos they are more mature and not tat demanding. And most older lady have aims... they want family and love not like the young 1... enjoyment and fun which of course spending money. my 6cent tho.

All my ex is 5 years, 3 years & 2 years. The maturity does not measure in age, its very subjective & depends the individual. The most important is comes to compatibilities of both couples.
But pls take note that gals are tends to be more mature faster than guys.

7 years that's a big gap.. anyway the most important is compatibility.. age is a figure only..

forgot to mention...looks is one of the considerations...

my aunt used to date a younger guy. and they are happily married now with 3 kids. and the age differences never been an issue to them or both their family. there are some cases younger guys "love" older women because of their money. and younger girls with older guys too. i dont think age really matters as long as the love for each other is sincere....

hehe tats becos u look younger than them.

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Added on June 26, 2008, 9:14 pm

got the same feeling too. but now there's another guy 2 yrs younger than me is dating me but i still observing whether to accept.

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Added on June 26, 2008, 9:15 pm

cuz gals really mind when the guy they r dating look younger than them. if onli the age is younger still ok but when comes to look hardly gals dun mind lor. cuz me oso mind if the guy i'm dating look younger than me. looks like bringing my didi out.

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Added on June 26, 2008, 9:17 pm

well perhaps its due to case to case basis. more often v used to accept guys older than gals compare gals older than guys lor.

i have a frenz..guy...he always dating wif de lady dat older den he..haiz...duno wat magic he use..haha..by the..love really is blind..haha

i am MIND..that if my bf is younger than me...the fact is i cant take it...ppl will gossip..so not good lor..after the guy also no face..so i nv accept guys that is younger than me...

i think u need to hang out with right type of people.

Sien lor.. later even u find an older than u and ppl still gossip something, then what? Break up?

U find ur own life why need people comment? So when u having sex, do you need to ask your relatives, friend, stranger?

Then,
PPL gossip, guy no face = that guy no guts at all.

PPL believe in Gossip never successful one.

Good, Im strongly agree with you. hehe

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Added on June 27, 2008, 5:41 pmThe most important thing to keep a relationship last long is feeling and thinking. Age is just a figure..
We are date with our gf but not date with our friends.
Why so care about people comment.
For me i just will follow my feeling, as long as im happy, i wont care what ppl gossip.

i was like "together-not together" with this classmate of mine who was a year younger than me.

but we didnt get into the stage of formal relationship for many reasons. he talked to me when he feels like it, ignored me when he has something better to do. he expected me to appreciate everything he did for me. he wanted me to confess first. i felt that i need to give a lot of care and love in this relationship and no way it will last, because one day i will be exhausted by it. once he didnt talk to me for 2 weeks, just a few sms. then one night he called me at 1130pm when i have already slept to ask me to bring some food to his birthday party, which was a few days later. i got annoyed and then i decided i cant carry on anymore. i acted as if nothing has ever happened between us. he then only confessed that he likes me (well, we never confess to each other before. its sort of like guessing all the while. to be honest, at that time, i sometimes wonder if he actually like me). it was too late and i already give up. i didnt bother to explain. i just replied "i dont know what to say".

recently i noticed that he wrote on his friend's facebook that i am harrassing his friend! (well, he intro his friend to me last time). that was so @#$@%

younger guys = lots of trouble.

^ another wrong kind of thinking

younger guys not = lots of trouble

Un-matured person, give it male of female, give him either 30years old or 40years old only have this kind of trouble.

Which means, you still have long way to go

hihi i hv a similar scenario like u hv but this guy is not tat bad like ur classmate. he did confess to me for the 2nd time v meet. v go clubbing n after tat they went to hv supper. he did it in front of his frens when everyone is eating. this is the first time i met a guy which is so direct. i'm too shocked n surprised as i dun used to meet such guys which is so direct. i told him u r drunk o watever excuses i can find tat time. even his fren is trying to promote him as well. even since then v used to chat via sms n on off he'll b calling me. in btw he'll ignored me sometimes then will call o sms me back. i felt really uncertain. just dun understand wat can help to break this situation. just like yesterday me n him went to mamak stall yum cha. just 2 of us onli n he sent me back home. v r just walking back from the mamak stall to my house which is 15 mins apart. i think i did gv him some hints but he's not really getting it o trying to avoid. is there any recommendations here?

dont need u to teach me what type of guys i need to mixed with..

no offence!!

just that as long i am confortable mixing around then its fine...

i just close to guys...

well, i guess thats abit generalize. But again, I guess the kid got problem at the 1st place.

yeelin04> I wont teach people that I neva saw their face b4.

nevermind lar 7chai...

stubborness to accept good advices is not rare case also...

We'll see ok?

looking for old ladies

oh...i juz found out gal looking forward for the "older" guys (or mature in another word).

I tot gals r always looking for those young young 1,very fashion de,always bring them go out play(wet) de,very leng zai 1 and also always joke wit gal 1(u can say playboy type).

From the fren i saw,all of them r like dat...r they too "young"??Haha

other said if wife older than husband, the husband will become prosperity??????

my gf is 5 years older then me and i dun mind lol

who said that ? No offence but that's the stupidest thing i've ever heard

well, I got no eyes to see.

wow can i no the age diff btw ur fren n those younger guys? mayb they r trying to recall their sweet memories when they r in the age. just feel tat if really big diff i cant really accept.

yen..
1) improve your english
2) how old are you? you seems to be living in fantasy. not only in this post, but others as well

Chill people, i think she is still too young to understand .....although i dun agree with yen at some point, but i think she is free to express herself....back to the topic, personally, i wouldn't mind to date with youger guys. But i think guys usually look for younger girls.

he might be playing mouse and cat game with u?

so would you count those boy that date older gal had an outstanding personality ?

i prefer older girl too

i feel like more and more guy prefer older girl same goes to my friend ... lol

But the majority of women do not prefer younger men despite your desires.

infact me to my gf is also 5 years older then me , but we are happy till so far , as n when quarrel may be due to the age gap i think .
My point of view is not mind or don mind , but whether can get along or not