I find this is one of a very important topic in life. regarding to Ironmaiden's Topic it's sorta narrowed down to only Premature Ejaculation (PE). There are plenty of things I believe everyone is willing to share but restricted with that topic.

Let me start out by birth control method. A lot of girls use pills for birth control but somehow my wife she uses this birth control called implanon. It is a flexible plastic rod the size of a matchstick that is put under the skin of your arm and its one of the "top" birth control i've seen so far.

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Added on June 13, 2008, 6:08 pmThe last we've discussed @ PE was about Pleasing your partner. And i can tell you there were a lot of method and ways to please a partner and how to have a longer and more pleasurable sex with your partner as well.

I'm currently using Implanon®...it's
It's much more easier as I don't have to remind myself to take contraceptive pills..
I'm also afraid that I might miss a pill..
I've seen my sister who always whine when she forgot her pill.. then she have to restart the calculation again..

I've never tried taking contraceptive pills cuz I've been told they can cause women related cancers..
But I guess everything have its pros and cons.
So my gynae talk me through on using Implanon®.. which is better than pills and IUD.
IUD is scary cuz they have to insert it into the uterus which prevents the fetus from growing..
Periods may be heavier and more painful upon inserting IUD and some women may suffer from serious infections..
And also because the IUD is inserted into the uterus, sometimes during intercourse, the man might feel the thing is there..
Believe me, I've did some research.. I have 3 kids already so this is very important to me..

But for Implanon®, it's inserted just under the skin of the upper arm.
At first I was sceptical but then I just agree in doing it.
An Implanon® can only last for about 3 years depending on your body mass.
After that a new one will have to replace the old rod.
My gynae showed me the Implanon® itself.. it's just a tiny cottony rod.. like an ear Q-Tip..
I had local anesthetia, a tiny cut then got the Implanon® inserted then plaster.. that's all!
Process of less than 10 minutes.

For the first few days my arm was sore then I feel a little irritated cuz the fact there's something in my arm now..
Pretty scary at first cuz when I touch it I can feel the rod there. But after awhile I was showing it off to everyone.. cuz they've never heard of this kind of contraception.
They go 'YUCK'.. haha

So far, there's no side effects except for some minor headaches once in a blue moon.
It also minimizes period pain and 20% of women will stop having periods..
I don't have to use a condom during intercourse too which is

For more info on Implanon®, CLICK HERE

how does it works anyway? can't find it on the web, suppressing hormones?

yup.. it slowly releases a progestogenic hormone, etonogestrel...

You can find more details on it's website :

www.implanon-usa.com

How does a man control arousal? That is by far the hardest part ever for any man as joy is easily clouded over by satisfaction in the finish line. Since the sensitivity of the penis head is very much felt during intercourse, how do you tell yourself not to get to a point where you explode in a very short time?

People have suggested thinking about other things during the intercourse itself. For some, it works, but for some also, its an annoyance. The annoying factor comes when your partner realizes that you (as the male) is thinking about something else and not about the intercourse itself. Its very annoying to the lady since she wants you to enjoy what she is feeling also. To cure this, don't look at her when your thinking of something else. It GREATLY affects her arousal level, and she can easily get turned off if ur not careful. Be creative during intercourse to make sure that you're not looking at her, and still thinking about something else. And also, don't be too obvious. When a gurl realizes it, you're pretty much screwed unless you tell her the problem itself.

You can also try not to have long intercourses, but rather more foreplay to deeply arouse your partner. That way, it is much more easier to get an orgasm together, especially for people who have premature ejaculation. How to cure that can be found in the thread that was posted in this sub forum un the title "premature ejaculation".

Sex education, heh, last year when i in form 5, i always teach my friends about sex, and some teacher hate me because of that, SO WHAT? if some one dont teach us something about these stuff, who will? maybe some of us will get married soon after spm test end

Sex edu is not pron, its education lol!

If it's really education and not pron, the 'lol' aint necessary.

Sex is an integral part of an adult's life. The problem with a seventeen year old boy teaching his peers about sex is that they tend to only focus on the superficial and not in-depth discussions such as how it will effect the human body, pregnancy, STDs and etc.

With great power comes great responsibilities

Was there an article in the newspaper where they will be teaching Sex-Ed in NS?

this is a damn good question ... This is something I have trouble doing it at first. It took me a lot of practice of control. I mean when you are going coming or you may say explode. You can immediately stop doing what your doing and start arousing her more. Yes I know it can be difficult when you arrouse your partner, your partner may mingle around moving left and right which can cause some movement which tickle it. There are several way:

1) Focus and Discipline. - This is a must for all guys

2) Keep your movement every 30 sec and rest for another 10 sec and arouse her while you rest

3) Take deep breathe. When you breathe FAST you're gonna go FAST. Take in deep breathe and slowly breathe out. - if you can control breathing you can control your pace as well. Really imagine if you can delay it NOW. Imagine when you orgasm later.

Orgasm together is really hard to achieve but i didn't say it's not possible. Try do the breathing technique right and i'll believe you'll understand the rest.



In my school we learned it @ Primary 5 or 6 if i can remember. It's a private school so it's compulsory. One of British Programmes




There are proven research that with proper sex education, it have reduce the no of teens having sex.



I'm also wondering what are they gonna teach

This Implanon® seems interesting. I'm gonna discuss it with my girl.

Thanks alot for d info elena

If you read teenage mags these days, there are questions like "Can I be pregnant, we had oral sex" and "Can I get pregnant from swimming pools?".

it's the same as oral contraceptive pill. just that it comes as an implant, releasing the active ingredients (same as those in oral contraceptives pill) over long period of time.

so the good point is that, you dont have to worry to take the pill everyday.



Sex transmitted disease and how to avoid/prevent and what to do if contracted.

pregnancy and what is it?

contraception and responsible sex.

not how to make sex? how to arouse partner? how to have fun?

But what does the national service got to do with sex education anyway?
Does it even related?

National Service looks more to say as a means to defend the younger generation from any threats. I guess that includes sexual activities.

SEX Education 101 .. I really have no idea what will they bring up in NS.

Anyone went thru NS wanna share

The only thing they did was tell about safe sex, they actually brought in a wooden cock (i kid you not) and few guys volunteered to put on the condom lol dunno bout girls side haha

seriously? i wonder after that lesson, u guys got mood to do those training exercises not?
i guess now everyone are more excited to enroll in NS.

they should actually preach this permanently in schools.. from top to toe..

HOLY F*&K ... is that what they really teach ?????

Might as well implement in school cuz yeah like what elena said, it should be compulsory in school. not in NS.
If those who nvr get to take NS missed out on the Great "WOODEN" stick section

Wooden cock? Are you sure it was not a dildo?

I think parents themselves should educate children on Sex-Ed. I'd rather teach my children about these things than letting some strangers in NS telling them about the birds and the bees whilst waving a dildo.

Honestly, they could've used something more rubbery, but since the young generation's mind is quite polluted with American Pie and lots of other darned movies, they'd just laugh.

But at least, there's an effort being done with to educate.

I'm guessing NOT ALL parents educate children on Sex Ed ... But i'd also feel like it's partially parents role and education role to teach instead of NS ...hehehe ......



Yeah your right as well .. but at least shows like American Pie are sorta comedic comparing to porn which is just purely straight and sometimes it may be ugly sex

Somehow, I don't believe that Sex ed is actually being thought by parents anymore. Just like everything else, it gets ported to the teacher.

Hurm, what should we do now?

i guess we don't have to teach since the internet is full of it..
sometimes CURIOUSNESS leads to their very own discovery...

and once they found out, the junior is out too. Malaysian are main to be more conservative. If u talk about this topic in school u will heard all the gals start to giggle. wat to do? media tat is restricted by gov should have some refinement, since it does not really protecting the citizen but just to keep them stupid.

In form 3, i remember that students who wanted to learn never made any snide remarks on the human anatomy. The class was filled with bright students

But when I was in tuition class, I think 3/4 made snide remarks on it. So, I'm not really too sure on how we should just let the children look for answers on the net. Rather, I feel a better way is to guide them through that phase.

Of course even I've learned on my own curiosity, but I'm not motivated to have sex because of it.I'd rather wait til I get married.

My students once asked me a question in the classroom.

"Teacher, what is the meaning of HORNY?"

when my fren was still a kid, he asked his dad "what is erotic?" hahaha

^ Well, I answered them, "Please check your dictionary."

That's what my mom used to reply me when I asked her - "What's masturbation?"
I was still unclear about it even after checking the Oxford Disctionary.

Is it actually a matter of embarassment to let students noe these kinds of topics? Whats ur view?

I'd rather take the pill everyday. I dunno, some girls body's reject the rod implantation



LOL over here, we had like plastic bananas, and when you take off the top of the banana you get a pink plastic cock head. We had to practice putting condoms on them and stuff Haha, it was super funny watching everyone sit there awkwardly waiting for someone to do it first.

It ain't the matter of embarrassment. They have the right to gain the knowledge and I think it should be delivered to them in a wise and professional way. That's the reason why sex-ed is proposed in the schools.

And what bout yours?

I dun see it as an embarassment, but i've known others to feel so. Honestly, haven't gained much experiences on the "questions". But I've seen a kid spell in his text book from duck to f***.

yeah i saw that too!!

it was in one of the forwarded emails that i received...
could be fake thou...



anyways kids really like imitating adults.. he could have heard an adult saying it or he could have aped his friends..

a few years back, i went to this private school, saw some pre-schoolers.. they were using the F*** word.. towards each other.
i got shocked actually.. i guess peer pressure then..

I think it was real, considering that the exercise book had an Xbox picture to it, and the guys here showed that it was his son that did it in the Xbox subforum.

Remember the case where 2 kids tried having sex under the table after imitating what they saw on tape? I won't blame anyone on this one, but, honestly, should parents actually reaffirm themselves to talk about the birds and the bees even though they might not have done so with us?

erm..how much does the implanon cost?

Horny? If something has one or more horns, then it is horny



I'm imagining myself hving my kid ask that question.

I'd be going "it's something that adults do to get sexually gratified on their own. imagine, when you're older and ready, there will be a guy willing to pick your nose for you if you allow him to. but if nobody's around and you feel like picking your own nose yourself, you can do that .. that's masturbation. But God can still see you doing it "

if only if the teacher going to show them the photos of what STD can do to your vagina/penis, i guess no one will have the mood.

Yup the X-Box one was real.. 'the guy' that posted that interesting topic is my husband.. and my daughter was doing the book not my son..
the one with the duck picture but spelled out as f*** was indeed a forwarded email..
so duno whether it's real or fake..
you can read about it in my blog below..

X-Box Goes to School

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Added on June 25, 2008, 1:29 pm

Implanon cost RM480 for 3 years..
I don't know whether the price has gone up or not.
I'll be removing mine and changing a new rod early next year..
I guess then only I'll know...

How long does it take effect after inserting it? you mentioned that it has a life-span of 3 years, i was thinking that one will need to frequently check the "hormones" level to ensure that the contraception effect is still there, but there is still a risk if the rod is close to 3 years old right?really curious
Correct me if i`m wrong.TY

Should be immediately... well after inserting your arm would swell a little.. don't think you wanna 'hit the horse' immediately..
I think the life-span of Implanon last longer than 3 years but to be safe it has to be remove earlier..
The amount of hormones releases depending on your body mass...
When you've insert the Implanon, the gynae will give you a card which has your Implanon number..
He/She also will call you up and inform you when's the time to change..

I also check everyday and make sure my Implanon didn't run away..

Mine is due in August.. I think I would be removing and inserting a new rod in February 'to be save' like what you meant above.. lol

@ elena, ah i see. thanks for the clarification. And thanks for the blog post. haha.

Btw, a serious question to all, since Durex made surveys most of the time, and I'm probably not aware of it, I wanna ask.

How satisfied are you when you've reached the finish line after an intercourse? And how does your partner feel about it?

Wa rm480 killing price. it is too exp

hi, thanks for the clarification, however, i`m still unsure on how to ensure that it is "working". hmm, anything to check? I mean can we check the effectiveness through urine or whatsoever?

Rm480 for 3 years isn't expensive..
If you calculate the amount of pills you take for 3 years and condoms.. it's about the same..
Some more I don't have to worry about taking pills with Implanon..
Implanon is actually designed for working adults... especially for those who have busy schedules..




It's working as long it's there.. There's no way to check whether it's working or not..
So far, there's no complications.. once awhile just do a routine check with the gynae..
He or she will press and check on the Implanon..
I make sure that it didn't moved out of place, that's all.

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Added on June 26, 2008, 1:09 pm

In Durex surveys, I wonder one will just tick on the answers based on their own experiences or just the fun of it... so can't really rely on surveys..

For me.. sometimes I get enough>satisfied, and there are times when it's not enough>not so satisfied, but it's fine actually..
that makes one wants even more. haha

If not enough then can go for another round.
I'm not sure how my partner feels bout it.. I guess you'll never know what the other feels..

As long both reached climax then it's all worth it..

I would like to point out that we need a listing of male and female specialist clinics for references to all. I think gynae's are common, but unsure of a clinic for males.

Sorry but I can't mine considering the fact that I don't even know if such clinics exists in Malaysia.

They Do ... but i dunno the name of it ..hehehe ...

Oh My...

You're so RIGHT!!!

I'm going to do some research and let you all know...

But I know fertility clinics consults both male and female..

Ah, thanks Elena. U r always so helpful to us all. (Not to say I malas to search, but honestly I don't know where to start, even in google. )

Hehe! No probs.. since I'm free anyway..
Well, I found that MEN sees the urologist which specializes in disease of the urinary organs in females and the urinary and sex organs in males.
Actually there are so many specialists... kekeke
Here they are.. just click it..

LIST OF DOCTORS

Good Luck Guys~