hi guy..i wondering izzit guyz really care that a gal shuold be virgin or even 'tight' ??how about if the guy want satisfied sexual??some say if the gal seem not 'tight' they wont be satisfied.. some guyz say that if his gf didnt 'tight' enough they seem no mood to touch their gf..n will find other gal..like they are bored

those guy are useless, no girls can't be perfect, so why care about virginity?
if those guy want virgin might well go high school

haha you are rite but mostly 90% guy who wan marry his wife is virgin.
means if gf not virgin ok lah but for wife must virgin.
but it so hard wen 2 ppl love each other i dun tink both of them can dun ML lor.

I'm the third guy for my girlfriend and well...doesn't seem to be a problem for me. Just keep an open mind on things =)

why dont u try talk with ur bf about this, sure u can settle down about this.
if u bf cannot tolerate.. haiz.. up to u lor..

as long as dont ML with too many guys , like around 2-3 , then still can be accept....

tight , not tight , is nt important

1. First, you should be bold to start this topic somewhere else to garner opinions from the guys instead of girls (though I can see some guys are replying, it would be much better response than in here IMO)

2. This type of guys are insecure and immature. These guys would find the same excuses after their wife gives birth.

3. Don't ever let the guys to initimidate you or shame you (I'm not talking about those girls sleeping around, I'm talking about those girls who are genuine in love and have sexual experiences in the past..)

4. You have the equal rights too as to push the "blame" that he could not to "satify" you. BUT if both are arrived at the level of understanding and love, such questions would not have been raised or even doubted.

5. I believe mutual understanding, honesty and love . Both parties should know each has sexual experience in the past as to how many partners would depend how open one to their partner and it should not matter in the end.

Depends on the guy you end up with. Some are open minded, some are not. If a guy puts your virginity first before anything else then you should tell him to go fly kites.

I personally does not mind about whether my gf and wife to be should be a virgin or not. My only concern is that she should be faithful to me. Hmm...if the guy talks about dissatisfaction about the tightness of the private part, then you girls should think that it like the case of small boat going into an ocean. So, it's nobody's fault.

virgin or not virgin is not so important , depends how the bf thinks lo... bt mostly guy want virgin caz they feel they win it...i think so...dis is wat i ask frm a canadian la...and tat is how most guy think i guess

I can say that most guys preferred virigin la...

But, in case you are a virgin but still not tight, i guess you can tell ur bf that his d**k not big enough not yours not tight... hahahaha....

Is really depend on guys thinking.
For myself, I won't mind. What i mind is whether she will loyal to me in future. Also what I mind is whether she have a good and kind heart.

the guys that usually mind are the ones who are still virgin..

IMO everyone wants to be the first and only for their partners but the main thing is whether being a virgin is a huge issue to your partner or not. My fiance does get a little upset when we talked about my ex boyfriends but the same applies to me. What's the most important, as what most forumers mentioned here, is that whether he is loyal to me now and in the future, whether we are compatible, and whether we love each other or not.

I would be lying if I said I don't mind AT ALL that my fiance has been with other girls, but it certainly isn't a huge issue to me. He's an awesome man and that alone HUGELY offsets the fact that I'm not his first gal.

hm sumetimes guys can be so narrow minded lor. sumetimes not ask u lie but too frank maybe he cant accepted. dun so easi give your body to a guy u dunno him long time....

IMHO, i dont want a gf/wife which is not a virgin.
Imagine you marry her, then you find she's not a virgin, then u bump into the guy who took her virginity away also you dunno. roflmao

No one perfect.
Maybe they will think more about negative
But if girl really want to change thier life and be the best for guy, its much better.
They will more appreciate.
Love does not mean to check girl virginity
Its combination from heart also
Hope can help you to be more confident.

one question.....ur bf love u or love ur body......
if love u, wont care about u r virgin or not.....
if love ur body, u better go to find another lo...

i aggree with you bro

Which to choose hmmmm .... WELL, I'll say , is it TOO MUCH to ask or want BOTH?????
it be nice to be the first to land in and of course be loyal and loving & NOT BE SOME NARROW minded man I would'nt dream to become, to just choose only one....

If 'tightness' is the top reason for sexual satisfaction, then alot of married men would be deprived of sexual satisfaction. Probably you can even say they are doomed. If that is the case, do you think the men stays married ?

Sexual satisfaction comes in many way. And i think girl, its still much too premature for you to be asking or worrying over this matter if you are not even married yet.

i care abt it when i was teenage & dream of my 1st love must virgin.....but now no longer care whether my gf or wife is virgin.....The tightness is not really depends on how much sexual bf the gal have. If the gal long time interval does not have sexual intercourse, their vagina will become smaller & retract. The reason that loosen the tightness of vagina is due to often sexual intercourse.....
Even after married & give birth to 1-2 child, anyhow the vagina will be loosen compare to previous.....thats why some reasons some gal nowadays not wiling to give birth naturally & by operations....

hmm..mostly guy say wont mind..but as far as i saw..i heard..mostly from my friend(gal)..they upset when their bf know that they not virgin n start to urgue the issue..

AAH !!! An interesting thread , Virgin or not ! , Let me reply this with an analogy - Men and women when in love develop jealousy for one another because it is a product of affection , Do u think that if a woman knows that her man has been doggin around will she be ok with it ? Do u think that a man if he finds out that a woman has slept with 10 other guyz will be be ok with it ?

Both cases are no ! , hence what do u do ?

men can lie about their virginity..


then in that case.. you don't love her enough/truly
why u care so much about her virginity instead of her or her feelings?


women don't go loose after few times of sex le...

true. men definitely can lie about their virginity. but us women cannot. once uve done it, thats it. ur not a virgin anymore

i think it doesnt really matter if ur gf or ur future wife is a virgin or not. as long as u love her, then its ok. why make it into such a big deal?
as for me, ofcourse i wan to keep my virginity till i get married. i dun believe in prematial sex.

woh. that's SO unfair!
how can you defil your gf den want a wife who's not been touched?
get a life and grow up ><
if you touch your gf, you're probably touching someone else's wife.
so how can you expect your wife not to be touched if you have touched someone elses?




hahahaha. this one is so funny
small boat = guy's.... ?

1.if they complaint tat u gals r not tight, jz tell them, their c*ck is too small..
2. i doubt there r still a number of virgin out there?
3. dun care abt ur bf's satisfaction, ask ur bf care ur satisfaction. ML is not a person's stuff.. both should have da satisfaction

try to think this way la
if your wife give birth to your own baby liao
then sure not as tight as b4 right? will you divorce your wife for this reason? and not appreciate what your wife go through in the deliver room?

For me, virgin or not is not a real issue. A girl might be raped or sexually abused which is not from her own will. Tight or not tight is out of question. It might due to the size of the penis, or the diameter of the vagina.

The real thing is guys doesn't like his girl used to sleep around. Same goes to girls who don't like their bf have many girls before her.

A virgin guy will definately mind if his gf/wife is not a virgin. I think virgin girls will mind if a guy is not a virgin too. But the problem is, many people usually lose it during teens when they are not mature enough. Mostly regreted that later when they are matured.

That's my 2 cents.

to me... not a virgin seriously ain't a big issue. some guys might care how many hands his girl is passed on b4 him but then.. if the guy really loves you for who u are, there won't be an issue in virginity.
Guys who care about virginity,to me, i think la... they are just ego and doesn't want ppl to know that they other half is not pure or rather, he's not the first for his other half.
the most important thing is.. a gal should not sleep around when she got a bf already...

i believe only virgin guys want virgin girls....for non-virgin guys, it doesn't matter

Nope.... i have different way of thinking...

If she lost her virginity before know me, then i dont mind...

But after she know me or while i chasing her... and she lost her virginity or sleep or do with otehr guy...
I will totally reject such gal and no second chance given to the gal

i kinda agree with this statement

i think the real solution is.....say no premarital sex

but the bottom line is it's all depend on ur princip

pls lar, in this world, girl has the right to sex with which guy and none ur business at all even u r chasing her ...

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Added on June 1, 2008, 10:25 am

if whore or porn star ?

Yep... she got right to do what she want... but dont after do, then later tell me she love me; i will not accept such gal.......

i saw report from newspaper before, girls can get back their virginity by doing an operation to seal back the virgin seal.

that one called plastic surgery liow lorrrrrrrrrrrrr
hahaha
but can seal back meh?? i tot onli tightening??

That 'virgin seal' you are referring to is called the hymen.

Yes a man can lie about his virginity. But so can a woman. The hymen is not a valid indicator of whether or not a woman has had sexual intercourse. It's part of the external genitalia. What does that mean? It means that it's very, very easy for the hymen to break long before you have sexual intercourse. In fact, these days it is safe to say most women's hymens are broken by the time of a few years after they hit puberty. The hymen can tear because of sports activities, even being a little clumsy with a tampon causes that tiny thin membrane to tear. In fact, I can tell you as a fact that mine most probably tore when I was 13, right after my school Sports Day.

Come on la people, this whole idea of "physical evidence" as a reliable indicator of a woman's virginity is so kolot and backward minded I dunno if you people are actually having sex or not. What you guys gonna do? Check your girlfriend's vagina to see if the hymen is still intact? Do you even know what it looks like? Or you just gonna stick your penis in and if she's in some pain and it feels a little tight it's all good? Give me a break.

Even this whole idea about a "loose vagina". I think a lot of people have been conditioned into literally thinking that those perfect vagina's you see in all that porn is actually real. Some women have larger "vaginal lips" or outer labias. And more often than not these women are really conscious about it. Come on la, how can we not be conscious of our bodies especially when people are make assumptions that just because your vagina looks "loose" therefore you are a whore. Every woman's vagina looks different, the same way every guys d*** varies in terms of shape, size, colour, length, etc.

There is no 100 % reliable physical evidence to show a woman has lost her virginity. There is only considerably substantial physical evidence that can be found to indicate rape and sexual assault. If you don't believe me, look it up. A man can lie, a woman can lie. And frankly I think some need to be properly educated.

Anyone here read 'bout or practise Kegel exercises? Should go google it up. Normally recommended by doctors to ladies after conceiving.

guys will start out saying tht they wont mind coz they luv u. bt they actually mind n will eventually show tht they mind it.

hmmm...i believe this is somehow true...
but wat abo them? if they are not virgin anymore...
so isn't it fair to us if they wish to care abo all this?
and they can lied abo their 'virginity'?
hmmmm...

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Say NO to sex before marriage !

yes some gals is lied to bf abt virgintiy but aiks nowadays how to find virgin lah.
sec skools maybe oledi lost virgin lor.
better marry onli have XXX lah.

does guy really so care about their gf virginity? i m a guy also but for me virginity is not a big issue for me.. if the guy really love his gf he shouldn't care for that..

Well, u think, someone used my wifey b4! Wat do u think?

it depends on how u loose ur virgninity

guys want whores when they're young and careless.
guys want virgins when they wanna get married.

hate the f***ing double standard.

Not all the guy is hunger for virginnity!! If the guys really love the gal, he won't care about her past (virgin or not)!! The most important is both of them got feeling when X!X@#. Today every body is open minded liao , guy and gal can live together before married, if this things happend in 19 century,you know what will happen lah..Ha...Ha...

i want my wife to be virgin