just to make a survey...to wat extent would u girls let ur bf touch u? and do u and ur bf foreplay before marriage, or would u prefer to wait until marriage? is foreplaying considered as sex before marriage? it seems like it's a common thing in couples nowadays, but does it happen in almost every relationship? pls share in your views..thanks

what is your definition of foreplay? anything but penetration?

yup, as in oral sex without any intercourse

TS.....is guy allowed to reply in ur topic?

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the questions are mainly for the girls but guys can also share your opinions

how far? Some times you can debate on this stuff. When you are in the heat and you really like that guy... i guess there is no limit to it T_T

how far... i would say as far as he could.
But i dont perform Oral sex. But i do enjoy oral sex.

But when a guy started to have oral sex, the intention is there.
when u experiences orgasm, you won't think of any consequences.
Maybe at that moment, u all just did what u guys trying to prevent all day long.
Anyway, to me, a gf is not for touching to satisfy u, if u think like that, you probably is a sex maniac. we should respect them as a female.

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Added on March 13, 2008, 2:40 pm
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you are really beautiful to me...

Hi,

dude here. Well, Are you making a survey for the public or for yourself ? Here is the advice i give to you. Kissing is so common nowadays. I dont know whether it's still a taboo around the community. If you dont like the way of your bf touch you and then you should let him know. Don't be silly. Hope i clear your doubt.



Thank You.
dj.

touch where??

I just have to know "one thing leads to another".
Sooner or later it will happens.

If a guy can say "u dont have sex with me becoz u dont love me" or "i will dump u if u dont have sex with me" then that guy is not worth it

from my point of view. Very far if you like him

strange people just register new account to ask this type of question but i wonder why you guys even bother to reply when TS doesn't even share his / her opinion first.

maybe she is just shy her self? or she is pondering the answer given?

She probably registered a new account because she doesn't want others to know her identity. Probably too Shy.

Its up to individual.
And if you don't wanna let your bf touch you. Tell him first.
If he does threaten you. Dump him just like what wacky said. Not worth it. He just wants to use you. He doesn't truly love you.

Its all about NBTD....

Do u expect me to reply if im busy?

I feel that the Girl's Club sub-forum is overloaded with sex related crap. Heck it sounds more like a sex forum looking at the top threads everytime. Do girls only talk about this all the time? Or is it the horny young boys pretending to be girls? The guys are always the first to respond and it's obvious why.

Perhaps it's time to start a sub-forum called "Adult/Sex" or a "Ask Aunty Ann for Love/Sex advice".

I started to wonder if TS is a female or a male. It's true that you see a number of strange people asking pretty strange questions here on Girl's Club. TS doesn't sound like a FEMALE for me. Just my 2 cent.

what do you mean touch?
kids nowadays are already making babies...!
so you can figure out how far is that right...?

Damn, I hate bf that pressurizes their gf for sex, what does he they gfs are. DAmn if they really want it that much there are plenty of bottles around or blown up dolls.

haha.. this is the best reply in this threat. LoL

i agree... but it hard 2 read the signs... sometimes the girls advance 1st... then when the guy make the next move the girl would want to stop... most ppl they want to touch but not be touch... so it depends on individual... but i think just cuddling is a part of any relationship... as for oral sex is a whole new dimension

my answer to u, if u are a girl...

I would bet you are a beginner in a new relationship. And experiencing for the first time, a boy touching you or kissing you. I know for most girls, when the first time these things happens, there were lots of confusion. And not every girl are brave to ask these questions among her peers.
Probably, you are residing in Asian country as well.

My advise would be, do not give more than you should. Everyone has this 'self control'. It's the matter where your limit lies.
One things can easily leads to another, something that would be out of control.
And my guess is, you might even be underage to have anything more than sex.

Try to restrain from having sex before marriage, as it clouds your judgement over your partner if he is suitable to be your life partner or not.
It saves the hassles of having pregnant, forced marriage or abortion later.

if u are a boy...
probably you are wondering if you have gone to far or your other half are stopping you whenever you tries to make or have more than what you are doing ?
Learn to respect a female's wishes if she doesn't wants to be touch or not ready for anything more.

thread starter is a boy/man

we went the furthest that we can go.... weekly sexsions lol

So how far should oral sex go?
Whats your view on oral and masturbating the partner?

yes.. to answer TS's question as well..
anything but penetration.. but also have to depend on your mood..

anything beyond penetration is when u can trust ur partner.. most importantly - the feeling has to be there..


lol.. desperate men...

Those girls who have bf's liddat, just tell them go to chow kit road lah, plenty there.
lol

hahaha... i think the way some guys who pressurize their gf to have sex with him, the gf sure will get annoyed...

Sorry bout the poor english of that post of mine that you all are replying to I guess I was drunk.

But anyway have u people thought about gals that give into bf's requests easily? I do not know if its call love if you give that person what ever he or she wants.

Some people says if you love the person enough you would do anything for him/her, would a person go as far as to betray his/her principals?

I do not know, its quite contradicting.

my bf never pressured me for sex. i know that he wanted it but he respected me enough to let me take my time. in the end, i am the one who asked for it haha

basically you do have a point but........

problem with some girls are

- if you dont do it and say you want to respect their wishes, later they say you are chicken and claim the intimate relationship is not moving

- they dont move even if they are ready

- they might get a guy who is bold enough to move in on her.

- they say no, when you want to do it. and when you do it they say yes.

confusing really

dunno... depends on individual...

i would sure like 2 receive 1... but dont think would want to give 1 though XD

As i understand, the girls are more precoccupied with 'confessions' of love than the art of touching or love making. Whilst the guys are more into 'touching' and love making stuffs because of their raging hormones.

the girls i am talking about here, are those virgins, or those probably aged below 25. Of course, we can't deny the fact, there exist some girls who are very into these.

well, whatever demographics you post on the board. those things do happen, a lot of girls have the impression to let him make the move and she hopes for it. which well causes most of the trouble.

IMHO, the most important thing is to make sure that in a relationship you always have a rational mind. If you are ready, you're ready. If you are not, you're not. The only one who should pressure you is yourself.

If you want to have sex on your first date, and you are fully aware of the repercussions and consequences it bears, then go ahead. On the other hand, if you are hesitating to do so at any given point of the relationship, be it 2 weeks, 2 years or 20 years in the relationship, then hold your horses (pun intended) and think about it first.

At the end of the day it depends on what you want, and what your principles are in life. Some people look down on one night stands, but given the situation, wouldn't it be better to have a mutual agreement on no-commitment sex rather than hooking up with someone just to get into her pants, when she, on the other hand, is dwelling over the fact that you are the one she wants to sleep with for the rest of her life?

Totally agree

sex related crap i like!!!

Wah didn know that you are so selfish
only recieve and not give back.

there are still gals that over 25 still prevent pre marital sex...OK

Does age have to do with principals?

no, but maturity level does...most of the time it comes hand-in-hand..

u dun mind ur bf go to pros ?

She means to dump that bf.

We must give and take .. so .. is u won't do it .. dun accept it ask well.. all action there will be expectation...

lol jz wonder y always abt boys wan touch , boys wan sex, boys wan oral etc.... tak kan , all the girl dun like sex? dun like oral ? dun like to be touch >>?

Well, for me, it depends on whether I want to or not. The guy can cry, beg on his knees, shower me with flowers and diamonds but it all boils down to whether I want it or not. Must respect maaa.Same if the guy dowan then I wont push lor (got guys dont want aah?).

It depends on how mature your relationship is. I've had exbfs who only wanted the sex. Which is very sad because they manipulated me into thinking that they love me but actually they only want to get physical.

I think its usually good to talk about doing it before actually doing it. Stuff like making sure both parties want it and if both agree then have to talk about important stuff like protection. Not to mention the venue and time. LOL!

my gf curious why i'm different from other guys, didn't request for sex

before we start she already made a point only to have sex after marriage so i respect that, still got 2 more years, very fast one lar, 3 years also passed like that lar

it's all about the WANT...

hamsap thread

do you have anything to post beside that?

thanks to people like u posting this shit in GC making GC become polluted with people like u.

back to topic.

actually everything also back to basic thing...RESPECT.

There's no such definition as "HOW FAR" can be go but it is all depends on situation and the mood of that time, and of course...Respect!

being a couple is not about touch touch like that, if you wanna touch touch then you treat your partner as a sex toy.