hmm, can anyone out there tell me....how do u know whether a guy is interested on u anot?
wat's the things he would do to a girl he likes? and what he wouldn't?

I have a solution. But to me this is what I observe from some of my guy friends. But you have to ask other ppl to observe cos you can't see it yourself.

When a guy is interested in you, as he walks side by side next to you, he tends to tilt and learn towards you... get it?

| | <--- lets say this is you


the situation will be like this:
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urm... kay i dun think u understand.. oh well at least i tried.

easy, when guys don't act like themselves in front of you and their eyes can't get off from you.

He'll try to touch u all he can ^^ jkjk..
u can monitor his behaviour with his other gal frens and compared it with u...
if he do likes u...u definitely can see the diff ~

So simple and I observe myself recently, I notice that I:
a) Try to call her at least 3 times a week
b) Flirt her
c) Keeps on asking or dating her out even she resist
d) He sometimes not behaving like himself like he's trying to catch ur attention with his act
e) He usually will show up at places u frequent, and he will say "Hei, never thought to c u here"
f) He will ask a lot of questions about urself
g) He will act differently when u told him that someone else is going after u
h) He tries to have a same hobby like u even he's not into it. Example, u like guys that can play guitar and can sing, if he really like you he will go to the extent to learn it to entertain u
i) He tries to call u at somewhere around before u sleep
j) He tries to find out about ur activity with who u usually hang out with
k) He will think a lot and ask u questions like "Ur phone out of credit", "U sleep early is it, thats y u din pick up my call" n make many stupid assumptions


Hope that helps u fren. Anyway this is wat i observe that happen to me recently.anyway that gal oredi rejected me

He'll look at you all the time and quickly face away when you look back.

^ sooo true...

and the guy will talk in a different way he talks to his friends when he talks to you, will be more gentle...

Also he'll look into your eyes whenever possible but is always too shy to stare too long.

And he will try to hold your hands and walks near you and let his body touch yours when walking. It's easy to know. You can see it in his eyes.

He will try to find out more about you and will try to be close to you.

keep staring@looking at you.

irritate you most of the time trying to get your attention

buy expensive gifts for u?

what if the guy msg u from day to night and asking everything about you....but seldom meet...does it means anything...

The fellow errr will always be there for you in happy times or bad times he will wait there for you kakaka good luck

he will always see the gal from far and follow the gal.. haha.. when the gal sad then he will come out to console the gal.. guessing only..

1.everyday sms u...

2.everyday call u.. morning, afternoon , night...

3.says he miss u.. and want to c u...

4.shy infront of u...

5.try to make u happy and do watever u like.

aiks.. very geli la if the guy is not ur bf but keep telling u that i miss u.. hehe..

Always ask what are u doing now ^^

my brother also always ask me what are you doing now.....

@@ every1 ask me that = ="" i dont think this is a good way to show...

yup but the best is like what your signature write lah I will be RIght here waiting for you

yeah lol...

certains guy have the same trait. Some guys are just passive, while some active

yea lo i thought gals are very sensitive to these issues, most gals will know whether a guy is interested in her or not one la ~

yea true... but guys tend to very hard to know wat girl feels with him

call/sms/chat with you very often
when go out with a bunch of frens... he will walk side by side with u...
extra care + attention
etc etc

many of my female friends close to me also, because we got the same topic, and
i am a little bit of gentlemen.how come, i could not feel that they are interested on me,
maybe yes gua , or i too stupid.

well i dunno... for my case
most of my close frens in uni are guys too... they treating me like a lil sister
even though oways hang out together they wont b da same fella walking side by side with u rite...
I had da experience to chat with my current bf (b4 v start the relationship) from 9pm -3am... he wouldn't wanna let u go off early n wanted to continue chattng...

When he look at me more than 10 minutes... do you think this is real ??

better advise he go to see doctor , the eye or mental got problem.
his eyes sure like this and

Em......i dun think so...

Are u handsome???

oh,really.....do u hv a pass like tat???

eye contact, body language and the way he treats you

Do u think u r handsome????n all the female frens r around u!!!

don always think tat gals stick around handsome guys only... usually gals stick around guys who can entertain them and relieve their tension..

haha ...y ar..??



wah...that guy either really likes u or perhaps something is not right there



haha....funny lar u ....

yayayaya , i agreed. Friend is friend , soul mate is soul mate. Why most of the ladies could understand , thats why they need to find a mature guy.



No , i am not handsome. Hey , not every gals like you , only go for lenchai. LenLui is not the point, the inner beauty is the most important.

This post sounds much experiences inside. You are like the || and my opinion just something like,

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All go towards yours.

isn't it just flirting with you, right??

Wow TS not bad

actually very easy to know we guy love you
firstly we will sms and keep say some sweet word in sms lar
like miss u miss me sayang n other
then in face to face, some guy will shy
some will just talk to u and stick with u whenever he got chance
that all...... and always help u whenever u want him for help
no matter how far ur house,
he also will come to find u if u want

-:he will ask for your handphone number....
-:he will open another line which is same as yours (example, if you are using maxis, he will use maxis too ) >>> "ONLY HAPPEN WHEN THE BOY STILL HAVENT GOT HP"
-:sms you daily...
-:shy when talking to you and act incredibly different in front of you...
-:try to call you everyday and talks about almost everything..(exp:what u doing ar ? , what time u sleep yesterday , what time u wake up , had meal already ar , and some other questions that tend to call u to out with him)...girls oso mus know how to do la..

*from my OWN exprience, i asked her to go out with me and she said yes..that time i was so happy !!! go out only both of us... but sadly she brought 1 friend to accompany her...* (but it wasnt that important as i did it already ! YEAH !!!)

if still cant help, watch "HITCH" !!!!

-:he will ask for your handphone number....
sounds like a stalker

-:he will open another line which is same as yours (example, if you are using maxis, he will use maxis too ) >>> "ONLY HAPPEN WHEN THE BOY STILL HAVENT GOT HP"
This is what girls think but actually he is using another line just for you so that he wont get caught

-:sms you daily...
Again stalker..

-:shy when talking to you and act incredibly different in front of you...
Sounds like a psycho

-:try to call you everyday and talks about almost everything..(exp:what u doing ar ? , what time u sleep yesterday , what time u wake up , had meal already ar , and some other questions that tend to call u to out with him)...girls oso mus know how to do la..
Cue psycho theme song

What about this..
One day, go out with him, just the two of you. Gently hold his cheek, look into his eyes and see what he has to say. If he doesn't say anything and runs away then you have 2 option. A, if you like girly men, go after him and say you just wanted to know whether or not you two have chemistry or not and if he likes you he will spill his guts out for you and tell how he feels about you then, or B, just let him be and get a real man..
By the way its not hard for girls to look for guys, its the guys who has to do so much just to impress the girls.. From time to time its fun to have a girl who knows what she wants and when she wants it. Take control girl!
Good luck

ask a lot of questions all over again
exmple. eat d? wat time u sleep? wat are u doing now?

ask for HP number and sms-es u everyday

act like ' i-am-not-me ' attitude in front of u

always look at u

huh...? tat's wat most of my frenz do to each other...

Last week, my friend asked me what she do. here is the story, she has a friend, he was her classmate for 3 years. so he, this classmate, quite close with her. sometimes will called her, ask some question. At 1st, he usually talk with her about his problem (for example he with gf).. Then he had broke up with his gf, after very long time, he told my friend, he likes her. so she doesn't really believe him... ( i don't why, probably he told her via the phone)... About few months later, he told my friend he have gf, but he don't really like her... and always said want to broke up with her. Also he seems treat his current gf quite bad.
Now my friend continue her studies in US, but he still works in mlaysia.
when she is leaving, he asked her don't go to US, stay in malaysia... but my friend didn't do that. That day my friend was leaving, and he had half day off and went to KLIA and met her. will any boys willing do this to a normal friend??
Now she is in US probably will study and stay there for few years. she ask me what does he mean?? anyway advice i give her?? she is so confuse.
anyway did i post at the correct thread? hehee.. if not, i'm sorry ya...

for my case,my bf do this when chasing me,he will alwis chat wif me,notice wat i do,help me.

1. watch out for cars for u wen u r walking alongside/crossing da road
2. take food for u, esp. if u r eating vf a bunch of frens in a restaurant
3. choose da seat next to u (in restaurant or cinema) wen u guys r out in a group
4. go out of his way to pick u up or send u home
5. juz smile without denying wen ppl call u a couple
6. really listen to wat u say n remembers it (*dis is a sure sign, since most guys r lousy listener...)
7. notices dat u hav trimmed 2 inches of ur hair/done ur hair differently
8. ask whether do u hav a bf. if u do, he wans to know how's ur relationship vf him
9. ask him to sing for u, if he does, it's a positive sign
10. willing to go shopping vf u without showing a bored face

he will...

Not doing anything at all.

Tease u, make fun of u, and say u like him.

ask any serious guy that is looking for true love yourself..would they ...simply find someone else when they know themself they liked someone else... no ler ofcos..
what did he mean and try to pass to your friend...saying that he had a gf but he doesn't like her...treat her badly...
and yes...a good friend would go KLIA to send someone off...
confuse or not..doesn't matter since you say she is gonna be there for several years..lets see if the guy waits for her or not lor...without any gf ofcos...lol